Online dating...?

Does anyone else think it's sad to do online dating (like match.com)? I'm thinking about it but it makes me kind a little...well...pathetic. Also, like I may just find losers there (like, why can't they just get dates?). Is that an old way to think? Does everyone do it now?

Online dating...?
There's nothing wrorg with it at all, I'm sure you'll find some good dates on the sites too, make sure you post your profile on a few of them, some good ones are





http://www.intimateadults.com


http://personals.yahoo.com


http://www.123personals.com


http://www.reviews4christians.com


http://www.match.com
Reply:no, of course not! only desperate people do on-line dating. how can you really get to know a person by just reading what appears on the computer screen? you are really just falling in love with words. "Actions speak louder than words."
Reply:from a normal guys point of view-





how many times do i go out on the town and get interested in a girl and try to start a conversation and find out she has a boyfriend- online dating eliminates this wasting of time and rejection





many decent and normal people are online these days- everyone is working more and doesnt have as much time to go out and meet other single people- others(including myself) find it hard to go out by ourselves to meet people, we like to go with our friends who dont always have time to go out.





online dating can weed out people who wouldnt work for you- examples- smokers, people who dont want kids, people who are planning on moving out of town, certain occupations, certain religions, etc.





i would start by making a myspace.com page and that is a free way to chat with other singles in your area- just make sure you advertise yourself as single
Reply:I think online dating is someone's personal choice. If you are a shy person and are unable to approach someone it's very hard to find that special someone. In that case online dating would be a great option.





If you are a very outgoing person and meet tons of new people everyday, I don't think sitting behind your computer screen is the answer.





That's only my personal opinion. I've heard that a lot of people find the right one using online dating so if you're comfortable with using the service, why not!





Good luck in your search!
Reply:As technology improves...we have less time to go out and look for mates...online dating is one the very HOT thing many people do...and it does turn out successful for lot of people. Just try it once and see how it goes.....there are soo many variety of people you can find online..and they are not really all loosers...they are just people like us who just dont have time to go out all the time and find someone.....So go ahead and try. If everyone was not doing it than there wont be sooo many of these websites.
Reply:Online dating services of today have changed dramatically over the years where now, you will find a service for every situation imaginable. For example, free online dating sites of today feature romantic opportunities for people of all ages, financial status, religion, ethnic groups, and geographic locations.





The problem that most singles deal with is not having access to other singles. After all, you can only visit so many bars, restaurants, and coffee houses in hopes of meeting that someone special. For this reason, free online dating is a phenomenal solution that provides access to people all across the globe easily, efficiently, conveniently, and affordably!





The technology of today allows you all kinds of options to ensure your dating experience is fun and successful. If you are ready to step up and give free online dating a chance.
Reply:You will never know until you try. Yes it is a bit sad to resort to online dating, but some times there is just no other way to met someone you click with. So good luck and happy online meeting.
Reply:It can be a frightening thing if you meet the wrong people, but internet dating seems exciting to me! I am currently with my boyfriend of 2 years, and we are talking about getting married...As lame as it sounds, we met on myspace.com :-p
Reply:Did you ever try craiglist; here in Chicago they have





craigslist Chicago. You can meet people for free. Have





you tried going to churches, etc. I'm 52 and was married





l6 yrs., then after that lived with a guy for five years. Now





I have to go out again and meet someone so I know the feeling.
Reply:I understand what you mean, my grandmother and my mother online date, and its basically because they cant find the "man of their dreams" *laughing* You are never going to find someone perfect I always say. You have to be able to compromise with anyone you are with and thats just how the world is.





They seem like old bitter women to me anyway. *laughing*
Reply:no i don't think it's sad coz some people find it easier to talk to people online rather then face to face it's a bit dangerous tho
Reply:I tried the whole online dating thing, and yes it is a little pathetic. I quit after about 8 unsuccessful attempts at dating someone from the site. I came to the realization that if they were worth dating, they wouldn't need a dating site to get a date.
Reply:Well I think it makes you brave, adventurous and very modern. Who has the time for traditional methods of dating anymore? Not many people do. It is extreemly hard to meet single in the area. Many people on the dating sites are not losers they are just people like you and I who lack the time or even the outgoing nature to be noticed traditionally. Maybe these people have busy lives that are consumed by work and they do not want to date collegues. Maybe they are unable to meet their soul mates in person and are trying online. If you strike out there at least you get the potential of a whole new social net work and who knows where that will take you. Just be very careful, as appealing as this all is you must take precautions:) Good luck!!!
Reply:its alright for buuf buddies, no keepers though
Reply:I just watched this thing about that on GMA this morning, and if you go to places like eharmony.com, they actually do a personal profile on you and match you with someone that fits your personality, morals and values! I think it's neat! If people are answering honestly when they do these evaluations, and it minuses all the foot work and bad dates, why not? It's the WAVE of the FUTURE........
Reply:I have a friend who met her bf (of 6 months and still going great) on match.com. So, maybe it can work for you as well.
Reply:Awh I feel the same way but hey my girlfriend met her boyfriend online and hes a hot model. sooooo.. maybe its not so bad?
Reply:i think online dating is a waste of time...ull never see the person and u dont kno if its a 40 year old fat guy talking to u or the 20 year old dream guy u think
Reply:firstly i like your avatar. secondly, it is slowly becoming accepted as a way for busy people to meet.
Reply:Sometimes online dating is best for someone (like myself), who is very busy with work and other obligations. You really can't find the time to "date" anyone on a meeting basis.