I met this guy online a while ago, and we are now dating. The only thing is, he still has his dating profile online. I want to ask him to delete it, but i dont want to sound controlling or jelous, but i also dont want him to be going behind my back on there and meeting other girls. Is it wrong for me to ask him to delete it?? How can i ask him w/o sounding so jelous?
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hell no he better delete it! just tell him i mean ask him if he is still using it as much as you trust him and love him you never know what they are doing behind your back. trust me i know. plus if he cares about you he won't mind if you ask him right. how long have you been dating? and what is the level of your relationship? exclusive? open? that all factors in too
Reply:just ask him u should fell like that
Reply:Are you in an exclusive relationship, or still in the "getting to know one another" dating phase? Usually, with the method that I teach to my clients, they actually go out on dates with up to 7 people at a time until they find the one out of the group that they want to pursue a relationship with. If you are in an exclusive relationship with him, then I think that it is a discussion that you should have with him. However, if you are just beginning to date one another, he's probably not 100% sure about you just yet. I would simply ignore the fact that he has his profile up, and enjoy your time with him as much as possible... if the two of you are perfect together, it's only a matter of time before he realizes it and your dating turns into a relationship.
Reply:Reminisce about how you guys met and lead into the time when you took your profile down (you did, didn't you?) and then ask him if or when he took his down? If he really doesn't think it is a big deal (because he doesn't even check it anymore) you need to decide whether you trust him or not. Or just explain your feelings to him and if you bounce off each other, you can figure out where the rest of your relationship is going.
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