I'm about to give up on the conventional means of finding a girlfriend. I simply can't find someone with the qualities I'm looking for. I only attract the sort of person who I am incompatible with. I'm looking for a nonevangelical Christian girl who doesn't drink or smoke, has never done drugs, and is a virgin. Instead, I've managed to attract a girl who realized she was a lesbian one week after we started dating, a girl who is probably a prep, and another who IS a prep, parties a lot, and might not be a virgin (and, for all I know, isn't single and is leading me on). So I'm thinking of online dating, since I have had no luck finding someone compatible with me so far. (I'm 19 and in college.) But I feel like doing online dating would make me a loser. It's the only way to find people up to my standards, but I feel that it's cowardly. Also, what are the odds I'd find someone in my area, and my age? I'll only go for someone 6 months in either direction of my age. What should I do?
Online Dating?
First just let me say this it is very hard to define these days what is truly a christian. I understand your beliefs, The wisdom comes from experiences being with other believers who understand your frustration. Unfortunately, do not limit God to give you the desires of your heart. Look for the love of God in someone first, then seek like mindedness. God can place anyone anywhere at any given moment. Although, online christian dating is no guarantee that it is a christian that you are meeting neither is meeting them in person either.
What you should do is pray and be patient . God knows your heart but do not be deceived by placing a limit on how God can deliver someone to you. I have heard of many success stories with other christians meeting people online. You must be wise no matter where you meet them.
There many options just do not to limit God to them. Have fun meet new people but know where your standards are people are not perfect but there is someone perfect for you. So stop being so hard on others and yourself.....
Reply:just pray to God dear... you will find someone who meet your expectations. one day...
Reply:theres nothing wrong with online dating
but if you dont want to do it, the only other option i can think of is maybe asking one of your friends(im assuming theyre kinda like you) to date one of their friends or something, or maybe its just the kind of area that you live in %26amp; maybe try going to an area that has more nonevangelical christians or maybe go to a church and meet someone, idk there are so many ways to meet people =) and the plus side is that youre still young and have plenty of time
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