Online dating?

there is this girl that I have started messasging to on an online dating site. we've only e-mailed each other a couple times, we've never talked, and obviously have never met. Also, it's been about ten months since my last relationship ended. It was a very difficult break up for me as I lost my first love. Do you think it's normal that I kind of feel an attraction for this girl, but at the same time I don't? Do you think it's because I haven't met her yet and that I haven't had a real date since my last relationship ended? All of your thoughts would be helpful.

Online dating?
Why dont you meet her????? if you dont like her, then move on............ life is too short not to be happy.......... get going................ I met my husband online and we have been married over 7 years now...............
Reply:hi, I had a few bad experiences when i first tried online dating as well, you have to be really carefull with the sort of person that you agree to meet up with and allways take a friend with you on the first real date.





be careful that you check out the sites you sign up with as well, some of them just sell your information on. The best one if found was http://dating.1tops.com





I hope thats what you were looking for.
Reply:Move on and meet her. Theres only one way to move and that is forward.
Reply:having an attraction over someone who haven't met or personally seen is quite difficult as it is... its like putting your hand inside a sealed container not knowing whats inside it... i think what ur feeling is not an attracttion but something more of a curiosity... something intriguing... and this is bcuz of the fact that u're wanting to have a relationship wid someone...
Reply:on line dating is just fantasy . nothing more you could be talking to some fat old paraplegic how do know for sure grow up meet real girls they are fun an they smell nice
Reply:I met my boyfriend online and I love him so much. More than I ever thought I could love anyone. I would say keep messaging her. Get to know her. Maybe call her on the phone. You never know until you try. You're uncertain about her, so only time will tell. Maybe you're just nervous because you havent had a date in so long. This girl could really like you, why not give it a shot?
Reply:who knows. maybe she is the woman of your dreams.


set up a date and try to meet her personally.


if she doesn't sound as good as she is online, then just leave.





if, by any chance, she refuses to meet you in person and insists to wait for at least several weeks. do these things below.





1. cam on cam conversations on messenger


if she says she doesn't have a webcam. tell her to buy it. ( i got it for $15 at walmart)





2. ask her if she has websites such as myspace or facebook.


that would help you understand what kind of friends she has and how her social life is going.





3. be honest with her. don't lie .


remember lie will catch up with you sooner or later and you will lose her for good.