Online dating?

New to the whole online dating world (wonder if I am too old fashioned for it).





When emailing someone met thru the online personals, is it typical to be flirty with more than one person? This guy and I have been emailing a lot for 5 months now, he is very nice and we met once- which I thought went great.





He says a lot of nice things and all and ends his notes with a kiss yet stays as single on the personals site. Normal or ... ? Should I consider it just fun play and nothing more? I think he is fantastic and he is not too far away but am thinking now that maybe he only writes to be nice, or enjoys the 'risk free' world of online chat and Nothing more. (sigh)

Online dating?
You can't put a lot of faith into online dating , most of the people on there have been on for years and it is a big game to them a lot are just players and married men and women posing as single...Email me if you want to talk about it...
Reply:Single? True? Why is single? Is he a psycho sex offender who doesn't like marriage? Or does he have STD's?





Anyone can look charming on the internet world, even dangerous criminals with writing talent. Online dating can get you raped, murdered or infedted with any SDT including HIV (not a good way to die).





I stick to the old-fashion face to face meeting "REAL" people.
Reply:Not normal....if you met him(after 5 months which is excessive) and he hasn't suggested another date then he wasn't interested in pursuing things furthter if he hasn't contacted you to get together again. Be careful with online dating...not everyone is who they appear to be. Strike up a conversation online (careful about giving out personal info like phone #) and meet for a coffee in a public place. If they stick to online conversations then move on...they are not interested in meeting in person.
Reply:I think you need to leave him to decide on his own if he wants more or not. You have even met so he knows what he's got. I would not push it %26amp; wait.... but at the same time don't invest all your emotions on him or you will get hurt. Try to meet others.


Best of luck.