Online Dating?

I'm about to give up on the conventional means of finding a girlfriend. I simply can't find someone with the qualities I'm looking for. I only attract the sort of person who I am incompatible with. I'm looking for a nonevangelical Christian girl who doesn't drink or smoke, has never done drugs, and is a virgin. Instead, I've managed to attract a girl who realized she was a lesbian one week after we started dating, a girl who is probably a prep, and another who IS a prep, parties a lot, and might not be a virgin (and, for all I know, isn't single and is leading me on). So I'm thinking of online dating, since I have had no luck finding someone compatible with me so far. (I'm 19 and in college.) But I feel like doing online dating would make me a loser. It's the only way to find people up to my standards, but I feel that it's cowardly. Also, what are the odds I'd find someone in my area, and my age? I'll only go for someone 6 months in either direction of my age. What should I do?

Online Dating?
I don't feel on line dating will be any better I must say, But it's a start. I also feel that you should trust God to bring the right person in your life and I see that you are putting this on your terms Not God's.


He will bring the right person to you in his time, not yours and till you truly trust him and let him bring the right person in your life, you will keep running into the same problem.


Also you are putting way to much limits on this woman, and on God by saying "I will only take this and nothing else" There are alot of wonderful people out in this world, you shouldn't say it all or nothing. What if you found the right person and she 8 months younger then you? Or had had sex, but no by her choice? You must truly think about this. Don't put God in a Box TRUST HIM!


Best wishes~
Reply:Your standards do seem pretty high but there is someone out there for everyone. Online dating can definitely increase the number of potential people for you.





As far as online dating making you a loser... The people you'll meet are doing the online dating thing too so they shouldn't judge you for it and if you find someone that you hit it off with and have a great relationship with, who cares what anyone else thinks of the way you met that person?





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Reply:just avoid online dating at any cost is all i have to say about htis, there are some real creeps on there that are willing to kill you for whatever you have. when the time comes you will find the girl you are meant to be with. whatever you do STAY AWAY FROM ONLINE DATING!
Reply:Sounds like you like Christian ways and standards but don't like evangelicals or something. How about trying these online sites like www.ldsfusion.com, www.ldsmingle.com, www.ldspals.com. True LDS members have the high standards that you are looking for. Don't smoke, drink alcohol, don't take drugs, do not have premarital sex.
Reply:Well I think your standards are a bit high. Even though drug use is a bad thing never have done it is rare. Under peer pressure she could have made a bad desicion once. Some one who doesn't drink is rare if she is 21 or older. I can understand if you don't want illegal drinking but the odds of finding a young adult who doesn't drink at least occaionally is fairly rare. Also being a virgin is understandable but would you break up with a girl you like/love because she made once again a bad desicion under peer pressure? I don't think its the other people here thats the problem. I think your standards are too high.