I have met few girls face to face and everything goes well. But, so far I get a response from them there is no chemistry between us. I’m sure why this happen. Please advise.
Thanks,
Online dating:?
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Reply:With Online dating, you sometimes have to talk to many people and possibly go on many dates before you find the one person you click with. That's what makes it interesting and challenging. And remember that some people can lie about themselves and be flaky.
Reply:beacuse online dating never works most ppl lie about who they really r some r perverts just lloking 4 a chance 2 kidnapp i suggest don't try the online thingy
Reply:Dude try real life dating go to the book store and find some really nice girl and ask for her number.
Reply:Try the real world.
Reply:I don't think online dating is the horrible idea some seem to believe it is. I met someone online and found that we had a lot of chemistry in person. We are happy together. Be honest...have you told any half truths on your online profile? If you have been completely honest it could be that these girls just think its exciting to meet someone online but then get bored when you meet face to face. How old are you? Try dating girls at your school.
Reply:You sould move first. Maybe the girls shy. Waiting for you to move first!
Reply:well it takes time... one day ull find a perfect girl for u. =)
GOD bless!
Reply:get a life
Reply:How about sending more winks, emails? If not work, may be you can try some other sites, if you want to have an age gap relationship, you can go agelessmatch.com.
Reply:eharmony
Reply:so no is no. life goes on.
Reply:Is your picture current. I have done the online dating and the biggest disappointment is that they do not look like in the picture. Usually they are overweight or have a belly and I dislike that so much.
Make sure that your picture shows you properly so you increment the potential for a positive outcome.
Something else is the way you dress on the first date. I usually like guys that dress casual, like jeans and a nice shirt. And I always go for coffee only on the first date. I do not accept dinner.
I just met a guy and looks like it is working. I hope it works for you too.
I have friends that met their partners on line.
Reply:You have to let it grow, ignore the feeling of angst, if it happens it happens, and when it does you will be a babe magnet!
Reply:try and spice things up next time, you can create chemistry. Try to be more entertaining. Impress them somehow.
Reply:because online dating is scary and your feelings may change when you meet someone face to face.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Online dating?
I want to know what the best sites are for starting a relationship. I don't have much money right now, so I'd prefer it if the site could let me look for free. Also, I don't have any pictures I can upload, and I don't really know how to work my sister's scanner. Can someone help me?
Online dating?
OKCupid.com is kind of cool. They have questions you answer to find people who are compatible with you. It's a free site too.
Reply:www.myspace.com
Reply:MyBuNy fastest growing site, a place to meet friends, school friends, musicians, artists, models and so much more. Below we give you a few ideas of all the things you can do on our website:
http://www.mybuny.com/
Reply:Here is a place that reviews lots of dating websites. Many of the online dating services listed have consumer reviews, so you can read what others think of the different services. Pretty cool site.
http://www.reviewplace.com/cat-16-Online...
Hope this helps!
Reply:Don't know man.All must be paid.
Reply:http://www.intimateadults.com
http://www.neofriends.com
http://www.123personals.com
http://www.singlevillages.com
Online dating?
OKCupid.com is kind of cool. They have questions you answer to find people who are compatible with you. It's a free site too.
Reply:www.myspace.com
Reply:MyBuNy fastest growing site, a place to meet friends, school friends, musicians, artists, models and so much more. Below we give you a few ideas of all the things you can do on our website:
http://www.mybuny.com/
Reply:Here is a place that reviews lots of dating websites. Many of the online dating services listed have consumer reviews, so you can read what others think of the different services. Pretty cool site.
http://www.reviewplace.com/cat-16-Online...
Hope this helps!
Reply:Don't know man.All must be paid.
Reply:http://www.intimateadults.com
http://www.neofriends.com
http://www.123personals.com
http://www.singlevillages.com
Online dating....?
Do you think its good or no? And if you think its a good idea, do you know any safe ones that are free...
Online dating....?
Sure, but insist on a photo. and be very protective of giving out your email address, name, and phone number etc. until you are really sure the person is trustworthy .
Once you are ready to meet someone in person, arrange to meet somewhere public where there are large crowds, so you have the safety factor.
THEN, after you have met them, you can trust it a little more
Reply:I think its great to go on a online dating and why I say that for is because you can talk to that person and try to get to know the person before meeting him / her .... it also opens your mind and eyes to new things and lets you know whats out there for you ....
Reply:From my experience, online dating is a 50/50 hit or miss but its a lot more harder than approaching men in the bar cause you don’t really know if they’re really telling the truth…
Reply:Well it depends if you actually know the person.I mean there are sometimes cases when ppl hide things .I mean they can say there 16 and sexyy and relle be a 50 year old from germany.Its easier to hide things on the internet.I mean ive been in one for aboutt 2 months 3 weeks.I love him so much.But i knew him b4 he moved away.And also my bestfriend did .
Good luckk Hun
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Online dating....?
Sure, but insist on a photo. and be very protective of giving out your email address, name, and phone number etc. until you are really sure the person is trustworthy .
Once you are ready to meet someone in person, arrange to meet somewhere public where there are large crowds, so you have the safety factor.
THEN, after you have met them, you can trust it a little more
Reply:I think its great to go on a online dating and why I say that for is because you can talk to that person and try to get to know the person before meeting him / her .... it also opens your mind and eyes to new things and lets you know whats out there for you ....
Reply:From my experience, online dating is a 50/50 hit or miss but its a lot more harder than approaching men in the bar cause you don’t really know if they’re really telling the truth…
Reply:Well it depends if you actually know the person.I mean there are sometimes cases when ppl hide things .I mean they can say there 16 and sexyy and relle be a 50 year old from germany.Its easier to hide things on the internet.I mean ive been in one for aboutt 2 months 3 weeks.I love him so much.But i knew him b4 he moved away.And also my bestfriend did .
Good luckk Hun
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Online dating?????????
I'm not sure if yours is a complete enough question to answer but...
Yes, Ive online dated for about 4 months. It was alot of fun, if occassionally creepy. Met a wide variety of people and discovered that my borders are not as restricted as I thought. You can find out alot of basic info that people don't think to ask in a short period of time without the "what do I say to get into her/his pants" mentality getting in the way because you haven't met in person yet. Be as detailed in those online questionnaires as you can. It really helps in the weed out process. Also post a current photo (or several) of yourself. People like to see what you are advertising.
Basic advice... be honest. If you hate sports and TV, say so. If you like to party alot and smoke like a chimney, don't lie. Someone out there is your perfect mate or companion or horizontal mambo buddy if that is what you are looking for, you just have to search for that person.
Online dating?????????
Ok but meet in a public place. I met my fiance online. It was great. Just be safe, there are crazy ppl out there.
Reply:Online dating is fun and you does work for some people.
There is a new Dating Site for Divorced Singles. They are currently offering a FREE 3-month Gold membership to anyone who registers online at www.divorcedsingles.net. Once registered, simply click support and tell them your username and that you saw this post on Yahoo Answers and they will upgrade your account.
http://www.divorcedsingles.net
Reply:You just gatta watch out for the 60 yr. old creeps... but if you say u want to meet,,, do it in a public spot and DON'T get a ride with him or go to his house! ONLY PUBLIC! and make sure you have a few people who know where u r and what ur plans r. That way u r safe! incase anything happens! THEY MAY SEEM NICE AND COOL BUT THEY MAY NOT BE!
Reply:are you ready for if so just IM me
Reply:why are you in such a hurry??????????????????
Reply:email me ur number illpimp12@yahoo.com
Yes, Ive online dated for about 4 months. It was alot of fun, if occassionally creepy. Met a wide variety of people and discovered that my borders are not as restricted as I thought. You can find out alot of basic info that people don't think to ask in a short period of time without the "what do I say to get into her/his pants" mentality getting in the way because you haven't met in person yet. Be as detailed in those online questionnaires as you can. It really helps in the weed out process. Also post a current photo (or several) of yourself. People like to see what you are advertising.
Basic advice... be honest. If you hate sports and TV, say so. If you like to party alot and smoke like a chimney, don't lie. Someone out there is your perfect mate or companion or horizontal mambo buddy if that is what you are looking for, you just have to search for that person.
Online dating?????????
Ok but meet in a public place. I met my fiance online. It was great. Just be safe, there are crazy ppl out there.
Reply:Online dating is fun and you does work for some people.
There is a new Dating Site for Divorced Singles. They are currently offering a FREE 3-month Gold membership to anyone who registers online at www.divorcedsingles.net. Once registered, simply click support and tell them your username and that you saw this post on Yahoo Answers and they will upgrade your account.
http://www.divorcedsingles.net
Reply:You just gatta watch out for the 60 yr. old creeps... but if you say u want to meet,,, do it in a public spot and DON'T get a ride with him or go to his house! ONLY PUBLIC! and make sure you have a few people who know where u r and what ur plans r. That way u r safe! incase anything happens! THEY MAY SEEM NICE AND COOL BUT THEY MAY NOT BE!
Reply:are you ready for if so just IM me
Reply:why are you in such a hurry??????????????????
Reply:email me ur number illpimp12@yahoo.com
Online dating?
Do girls (18-21) think its weird to meet guys about the same age on the internet? Like if a random nice guy ask to be your friend on myspace and starts talking to you ... do you freak out or what?
Online dating?
Shour they do , and I'd love to meat you , even off line ,say at a coffie shop. But , hears the big BUT, Im older than you need, And a few dates with me ,wood put you so fare a head of your pirrs sexualy you'd be board with most ,men in your age groop . Wear the hell am I going with this ?? Aahh what--the ---hell Lets-see ,dating seems so long ago, Good - lock Hope I'm talkking too a young lady !
Reply:no, I'm 37 but I'll talk to just about anybody......
Reply:Nah... I'd talk to them, find out what exactly they want. If they're nice enough I'll keep talking to them. If I don't like them then I tell them so.
I don't care much about random adds, etc. If I don't like them they'll get deleted. Simple.
Reply:there's nothing wrong meeting up people online.. just make sure to set some boundaries coz you'll never know whom you are speaking to .. i mean it really overwhelming that u will email them and they will respond but hey take one day at a time..you'll never know u will meet the love of ur life online..so good luck...
Reply:i met my hubby online and then we met and have been together everyday since. if it was meant to be then it'll happen, no reason to freak about being friends with anyone then have it turn into something more
Reply:just be carefulllllll
Online dating?
Shour they do , and I'd love to meat you , even off line ,say at a coffie shop. But , hears the big BUT, Im older than you need, And a few dates with me ,wood put you so fare a head of your pirrs sexualy you'd be board with most ,men in your age groop . Wear the hell am I going with this ?? Aahh what--the ---hell Lets-see ,dating seems so long ago, Good - lock Hope I'm talkking too a young lady !
Reply:no, I'm 37 but I'll talk to just about anybody......
Reply:Nah... I'd talk to them, find out what exactly they want. If they're nice enough I'll keep talking to them. If I don't like them then I tell them so.
I don't care much about random adds, etc. If I don't like them they'll get deleted. Simple.
Reply:there's nothing wrong meeting up people online.. just make sure to set some boundaries coz you'll never know whom you are speaking to .. i mean it really overwhelming that u will email them and they will respond but hey take one day at a time..you'll never know u will meet the love of ur life online..so good luck...
Reply:i met my hubby online and then we met and have been together everyday since. if it was meant to be then it'll happen, no reason to freak about being friends with anyone then have it turn into something more
Reply:just be carefulllllll
Online dating?
just looking looking for some insight into whos done that scene before and how it worked out for you? it just seems like so many people put things like "I dont know why im doing this" on their profile so just looking for any insight the rest of you had to offer-thanks
Online dating?
depends on the sites and on your search
i have a free french dating site (english version very soon)
and i know that those who are interested in pictures only without reading and examining the profile often fail to have a lasting relation
(my site in reference)
Reply:am in to somtin lik that now for lik 3months and we hv not seen each other but if i do not chat wit him i feel mi day is not complete,we started talkin on the fone and i fell in lov with his voice,it sort a kind of adrenalin rush,we have our argument lik a normal r/ship and we make as well it just fun.and i think the ffeeln is mutual.but we r comin to a gradual understanding with one anoda so who know it might lead somwhere,
Reply:Online dating can be very productive but it requires creativity. Knowing how to put good pictures online and putting a good flirty and fun sounding description is not easy. Unfortunately a lot of men tend to put little effort into online dating and tend to lower the quality of the pool women see. (Too many men will spam women with emails because they are desperate and don't know what they want whereas women will put time and effort into their profiles but don't bother with checking men's profiles due to social stigma saying 'men have to make the first move', a cop out for shyness which is not attractive, or get disgusted at how many low quality profiles there are of men).
Reply:i think it's completely ******.
Reply:I met a guy over 2 years ago online, stayed friends and then began dating him 7 months ago and fell in love and now cant see myself without him... there are some great people online but also creeps. get to know people before you make any moves.
Online dating?
depends on the sites and on your search
i have a free french dating site (english version very soon)
and i know that those who are interested in pictures only without reading and examining the profile often fail to have a lasting relation
(my site in reference)
Reply:am in to somtin lik that now for lik 3months and we hv not seen each other but if i do not chat wit him i feel mi day is not complete,we started talkin on the fone and i fell in lov with his voice,it sort a kind of adrenalin rush,we have our argument lik a normal r/ship and we make as well it just fun.and i think the ffeeln is mutual.but we r comin to a gradual understanding with one anoda so who know it might lead somwhere,
Reply:Online dating can be very productive but it requires creativity. Knowing how to put good pictures online and putting a good flirty and fun sounding description is not easy. Unfortunately a lot of men tend to put little effort into online dating and tend to lower the quality of the pool women see. (Too many men will spam women with emails because they are desperate and don't know what they want whereas women will put time and effort into their profiles but don't bother with checking men's profiles due to social stigma saying 'men have to make the first move', a cop out for shyness which is not attractive, or get disgusted at how many low quality profiles there are of men).
Reply:i think it's completely ******.
Reply:I met a guy over 2 years ago online, stayed friends and then began dating him 7 months ago and fell in love and now cant see myself without him... there are some great people online but also creeps. get to know people before you make any moves.
Online dating?
is there any other sites out there that are kinda the same as www.myspace.com?
Online dating?
if your asking about sites the same as myspace..
well, there is www.livejournal.com and www.xanga.com and yea.. lol.. many sites like that.. and on myspace, they have links to dating sites.. lol.
Reply:yes ,www.hi5.com...try it and you`ll see
Reply:e harmony I have never used for finding my soul mate but i have found some good friends and also matchmate is also a good one
cosmetic
Online dating?
if your asking about sites the same as myspace..
well, there is www.livejournal.com and www.xanga.com and yea.. lol.. many sites like that.. and on myspace, they have links to dating sites.. lol.
Reply:yes ,www.hi5.com...try it and you`ll see
Reply:e harmony I have never used for finding my soul mate but i have found some good friends and also matchmate is also a good one
cosmetic
Online dating?
Do you know any good social networking sites like Mogenic or the GYC?
Any tips on cyber flirting? hehehe. I've been chatting with this guy for weeks now and I'm starting to like on him but it's not mutual. Any tips on how I can get our friendship go on a deeper direction?
Online dating?
aree that most are unstable. i met a few who decided they were in love with me after one conversation and wanted to fly 5000 miles to meet me. others who created such an outreageous life in their heads it was scary.entertaining but not the place to meet real people.
Reply:http://www.skris.com
100% free friends site with chat rooms with free voice chat and free webcam chat
Reply:It gives a vicarious pleasure.It is almost like shadow boxing.The freedom of expression and safety provided by distance, immunity from being scoffed at and will to get off any time....
Reply:Gay.com
If your relationship with this guy is not mutual there is no way of making him like you more. I suggest just be your self and you will find someone who likes you as much as you like them. :)
Good luck hun!
Reply:Watch it. Most of the women on these sites are unstable. I have heard that over and over and found it to be true. I don't know about the men, though? I won't go that route anymore. I'd rather be alone than get mixed up with another headcase or liar. Do yourself a favor and hit the bars/clubs.
Any tips on cyber flirting? hehehe. I've been chatting with this guy for weeks now and I'm starting to like on him but it's not mutual. Any tips on how I can get our friendship go on a deeper direction?
Online dating?
aree that most are unstable. i met a few who decided they were in love with me after one conversation and wanted to fly 5000 miles to meet me. others who created such an outreageous life in their heads it was scary.entertaining but not the place to meet real people.
Reply:http://www.skris.com
100% free friends site with chat rooms with free voice chat and free webcam chat
Reply:It gives a vicarious pleasure.It is almost like shadow boxing.The freedom of expression and safety provided by distance, immunity from being scoffed at and will to get off any time....
Reply:Gay.com
If your relationship with this guy is not mutual there is no way of making him like you more. I suggest just be your self and you will find someone who likes you as much as you like them. :)
Good luck hun!
Reply:Watch it. Most of the women on these sites are unstable. I have heard that over and over and found it to be true. I don't know about the men, though? I won't go that route anymore. I'd rather be alone than get mixed up with another headcase or liar. Do yourself a favor and hit the bars/clubs.
Online dating?
has anyone ever had any good luck with it? what site is best?
Online dating?
Yes I have but you have to be very careful %26amp; get to know the person first via emails %26amp; msn messaging
They don't always work out but I've also made a few good friends from it.
I am currently seeing a man I met online but it is only early days yet.
Have a try of RSVP site it seems ok
good luck %26amp; I wish you all the best
Reply:try this one I love it.
http://www.cutrope.com
Reply:There are serveral good sites out there. You can be successful with online dating, but as always be careful. See the article below for some online dating guidelines. Good luck!
Online dating?
Yes I have but you have to be very careful %26amp; get to know the person first via emails %26amp; msn messaging
They don't always work out but I've also made a few good friends from it.
I am currently seeing a man I met online but it is only early days yet.
Have a try of RSVP site it seems ok
good luck %26amp; I wish you all the best
Reply:try this one I love it.
http://www.cutrope.com
Reply:There are serveral good sites out there. You can be successful with online dating, but as always be careful. See the article below for some online dating guidelines. Good luck!
Online Dating!?!?!?
Is it possible to say you have a boyfriend on the computer even if you never see him in person and may never see eachother? examples of relationship: talk everyday, talk on phone every now and then, cam to cam with eachother, and well you asked the person out wouldnt they still be considered your boyfriend??
Online Dating!?!?!?
Nope - chatting and talking on the phone does not make someone a BF if you never meet.
Online Dating!?!?!?
Nope - chatting and talking on the phone does not make someone a BF if you never meet.
Online dating?
i just need an opinion...
a guy is asking me to be his girl he lives in new york and i live in michigan should i date him? i dont know about meeting in person and i dont much info about him yet but i could ask around he knows a good friend of mine
Online dating?
Oh, come on! If you are not planning to meet in person, then there is no point. And even if you were prepared to meet him, the distance is just too great. So, just find someone in your area please!
Reply:There is nothing wrong with taking the time to get to know him before you take the step of meeting him or beginning a relationship with him. If it's meant to be...he would understand and let you take the time you need to feel comfortable with everything. No need to rush anything. Best to be cautious.
Reply:How long do you think you would be able to handle the long distance. Are you are a needy person? If you I would not advise you because he is not going to be there when you always want or need him to.
Reply:You know, I'm kind of mesmerized by questions like yours. How do you date somebody online? Will you never speak to them on the phone? Never meet them in person? I don't understand how anyone can call that dating, nor why they'd want to do it.
Reply:I met my hubby on Yahoo Personals....
Reply:LOL, no!
Reply:I could never do that because you are taking a huge risk when a person isn't physically there. You can't read body language or expressions. I would take a chance on meeting people where I am from. I don't trust it.
Reply:you have to be real careful because people can fake their age. If you ever wanted to meet him, bring a friend along with you. Online dating is not wrong at all, i've done it and we've been dating for two years and always fly out to see each other throughout every hoilday. (i live in canada and he lives in united kingdom). i will be moving there after college and i think its great. Online dating gives you a better chance in getting to know the person. If he knows your good friend then hes obviously a good guy or just ask your friend about him.
Reply:yes give it a shot.i did the online dating for almost 2 years and to this day still love him but make sure u know that with making this decision u need to know what trust,tears,fights mean.good luck
Reply:Long distance dating??? Not a good idea.
Reply:Wow.. I would advise against this. Most long term relationships fizzle after awhile. Unless you or him are willing to (and I'm not sure if you're working full-time, a student..etc..) relocate to be closer, then yeah, just feel free to be friends and that's it. Plus, not to sound like a skeptic, but one never knows how faithful the other is, especially when they're miles apart. Of course, sometimes, it's tough to figure that out when it's local, too.
Reply:As an online dating consultant, I have been involved with all kinds of different people who have gotten out of relationships and were looking for help to find a new one.
The main thing that I tell them when they begin their online search for dating potentials, is to limit their search to be within their metropolitan area. A forty-five minute to an hour drive isn't bad... but an out-of-state relationship is definitely extremely difficult to manage!
I would recommend to keep this relationship as an online friendship for now. Perhaps when your situations change in the near future, and one of you happens to live or move in the same area as the other, then you could re-assess your situation.
However, there are exceptions to the rule! My wife and I were actually from separate countries! I had to fly out of state to see her for three months while she was visiting friends in the U.S.! However, we had been talking with each other online and via telephone for over three months before we got to the "dating in person" part. (Dating like this is quite expensive however!)
Reply:no!!!
Reply:Your age is very important and if young, you should not arrange to meet anyone without some other people around or until you are one hundred percent sure about that person, which is hard to do until you can verify who they are via meeting them or knowing someone you can trust who has met them. So for sure, ask your friend and see what she/he says. Make him come to you and not you going to him. Good luck.
Reply:well first try phone calls....then if and when u are ready to meet make sure to meet in a public place...like Appleby's Restaurant, etc....make sure several people know where u are going and when to expect a phone call from u....make sure they check on u as well during this "date time"....one can never be too safe
Reply:I old r u first. I am asking becuase u may be too young for online dating becuase it can be dangerous. but if he knows your friend and he's good then I see why not but it all depends on your age.
Reply:how do you know the guy you are talking to is who he says he is. even with web cams and microphones. you do not know who or what these people are. My vote
NO!!!!!!!!!
Reply:if you dont know this guy then heck no! i dont believe in long distance relation anyway and do a background check woman!!!!!
Reply:Id say that unless his local online meeting is okay once uve gotten to know him very well, but that far, nah...i dont think so it can be dangerous with so many things goin on. Nowadays not even sure if its safe online dating, u dont know if their telling you the truth of whom they say thy r or wht they look like or their age....id say becareful.
Reply:Can you date online and never meet someone and call it a relationship? What did we all do before we had the internet????????
Reply:You shouldn't date him since its over the Internet and it could be a sex offender and/or a rapist. Never trust anyone on the internet its not worth it or your life
Reply:well get to know him better before you commit and meet in person before you agree to be his girlfriend but bring a few friends along just in case
dds
a guy is asking me to be his girl he lives in new york and i live in michigan should i date him? i dont know about meeting in person and i dont much info about him yet but i could ask around he knows a good friend of mine
Online dating?
Oh, come on! If you are not planning to meet in person, then there is no point. And even if you were prepared to meet him, the distance is just too great. So, just find someone in your area please!
Reply:There is nothing wrong with taking the time to get to know him before you take the step of meeting him or beginning a relationship with him. If it's meant to be...he would understand and let you take the time you need to feel comfortable with everything. No need to rush anything. Best to be cautious.
Reply:How long do you think you would be able to handle the long distance. Are you are a needy person? If you I would not advise you because he is not going to be there when you always want or need him to.
Reply:You know, I'm kind of mesmerized by questions like yours. How do you date somebody online? Will you never speak to them on the phone? Never meet them in person? I don't understand how anyone can call that dating, nor why they'd want to do it.
Reply:I met my hubby on Yahoo Personals....
Reply:LOL, no!
Reply:I could never do that because you are taking a huge risk when a person isn't physically there. You can't read body language or expressions. I would take a chance on meeting people where I am from. I don't trust it.
Reply:you have to be real careful because people can fake their age. If you ever wanted to meet him, bring a friend along with you. Online dating is not wrong at all, i've done it and we've been dating for two years and always fly out to see each other throughout every hoilday. (i live in canada and he lives in united kingdom). i will be moving there after college and i think its great. Online dating gives you a better chance in getting to know the person. If he knows your good friend then hes obviously a good guy or just ask your friend about him.
Reply:yes give it a shot.i did the online dating for almost 2 years and to this day still love him but make sure u know that with making this decision u need to know what trust,tears,fights mean.good luck
Reply:Long distance dating??? Not a good idea.
Reply:Wow.. I would advise against this. Most long term relationships fizzle after awhile. Unless you or him are willing to (and I'm not sure if you're working full-time, a student..etc..) relocate to be closer, then yeah, just feel free to be friends and that's it. Plus, not to sound like a skeptic, but one never knows how faithful the other is, especially when they're miles apart. Of course, sometimes, it's tough to figure that out when it's local, too.
Reply:As an online dating consultant, I have been involved with all kinds of different people who have gotten out of relationships and were looking for help to find a new one.
The main thing that I tell them when they begin their online search for dating potentials, is to limit their search to be within their metropolitan area. A forty-five minute to an hour drive isn't bad... but an out-of-state relationship is definitely extremely difficult to manage!
I would recommend to keep this relationship as an online friendship for now. Perhaps when your situations change in the near future, and one of you happens to live or move in the same area as the other, then you could re-assess your situation.
However, there are exceptions to the rule! My wife and I were actually from separate countries! I had to fly out of state to see her for three months while she was visiting friends in the U.S.! However, we had been talking with each other online and via telephone for over three months before we got to the "dating in person" part. (Dating like this is quite expensive however!)
Reply:no!!!
Reply:Your age is very important and if young, you should not arrange to meet anyone without some other people around or until you are one hundred percent sure about that person, which is hard to do until you can verify who they are via meeting them or knowing someone you can trust who has met them. So for sure, ask your friend and see what she/he says. Make him come to you and not you going to him. Good luck.
Reply:well first try phone calls....then if and when u are ready to meet make sure to meet in a public place...like Appleby's Restaurant, etc....make sure several people know where u are going and when to expect a phone call from u....make sure they check on u as well during this "date time"....one can never be too safe
Reply:I old r u first. I am asking becuase u may be too young for online dating becuase it can be dangerous. but if he knows your friend and he's good then I see why not but it all depends on your age.
Reply:how do you know the guy you are talking to is who he says he is. even with web cams and microphones. you do not know who or what these people are. My vote
NO!!!!!!!!!
Reply:if you dont know this guy then heck no! i dont believe in long distance relation anyway and do a background check woman!!!!!
Reply:Id say that unless his local online meeting is okay once uve gotten to know him very well, but that far, nah...i dont think so it can be dangerous with so many things goin on. Nowadays not even sure if its safe online dating, u dont know if their telling you the truth of whom they say thy r or wht they look like or their age....id say becareful.
Reply:Can you date online and never meet someone and call it a relationship? What did we all do before we had the internet????????
Reply:You shouldn't date him since its over the Internet and it could be a sex offender and/or a rapist. Never trust anyone on the internet its not worth it or your life
Reply:well get to know him better before you commit and meet in person before you agree to be his girlfriend but bring a few friends along just in case
dds
Online dating?
I went out on date with a girl and we met first time in person. We went to restaurant for a dinner and we had good conversation for 3 hours. I asked her if she had great time and she stated that she enjoyed. Also, she stated go out to the movies next time. Does that mean she is interesting me and has feeling for me. Also, should I wait for her phone called?
Online dating?
its mean she's interested in u............
%26amp; no i think u should call her if u really want 2 hang with her
Reply:dont wait, call her first.
Reply:yes she likes u :). U call her first they like that more ;P
Reply:so you met a person online? i would really meet someone in person, you can say anything online.
Reply:WAIT FOR HER CAL .SEND HERA CASUAL MESSAGE LIKE" HW R U ?"ASK HER IF U CUD CAL HER VIA SMS N IF SHE SAYS YES DEN ONLY GAL HER.N I THINK SHE LIKES U.
Reply:Certainly seems to me like she's interested with you. If you want to talk to her/set up the next date, go ahead and call her. I never understood the games people feel the need to play - just do what feels right to you. :)
Online dating?
its mean she's interested in u............
%26amp; no i think u should call her if u really want 2 hang with her
Reply:dont wait, call her first.
Reply:yes she likes u :). U call her first they like that more ;P
Reply:so you met a person online? i would really meet someone in person, you can say anything online.
Reply:WAIT FOR HER CAL .SEND HERA CASUAL MESSAGE LIKE" HW R U ?"ASK HER IF U CUD CAL HER VIA SMS N IF SHE SAYS YES DEN ONLY GAL HER.N I THINK SHE LIKES U.
Reply:Certainly seems to me like she's interested with you. If you want to talk to her/set up the next date, go ahead and call her. I never understood the games people feel the need to play - just do what feels right to you. :)
Online dating?
ok not dating, but how do you find someone with similar interests on here? Has anybody ever used Answeres, to try and meet people? Is singles the right place to post like a personal ad? How many girls think im cute?? ( i see a ton of people asking this question about how they look)
So not that i really care, but i am curious, i just learned how to post my picture in my avatar and would be curious to see how many people thought i was attractive, you can be rude if you want, i get the nature of my question...but you might not get the ten points!!
Thanks!
Online dating?
Your very attractive. I don't know why you want to go on the internet to meet people. I am sure the girls are knocking your door down and the phone never stops ringing.
Besides you look to mature to go into those sites and play games. And to me that is what they do on there
But I am sure you will get some responds from people on here . Be careful they aren't under the age of 18.
Reply:Meeting people online isn't always a good idea, trust me. Just be more confident in the real world! Flirt, talk, etc with girls. And if you get rejected or something don't let it get to you! Just keep trying. And in answer to your question on a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say you were a 7 which is good. If you really want to meet people online then I suggest using a dating agency website rather than this. Good luck x
Reply:im not a girl as im older way older but you are attractive especiallyyour eyes and oh if this isnt the forum for meeting its true then places like church and other like are not a place to meet either duh it just isnt a place to advertise but hey if you advertising then yeah find the personals...
Reply:Be careful meeting someone online. Of course, my husbands grandson met a lady from Cal. they married and are very happy. On the otherhand, I heard a girl met a guy she had been corresponding with online, he killed her. If I was single, I would never use this computer to find a date. I agree, I like the old fashioned way best.
Reply:Y!A seems like a pretty legit place to meet people online. you can get a lot of info from reading people answers or questions.
i'd still rather meet someone the old fashioned way though. but nothing wrong with online!
Reply:Go onto that certain section on the Yahoo! Answers and ask if anyone personally likes it, or answer someone's question with your own anecdote. I completely understand how you feel.
Reply:No, this is not the right place to hook up with people. Go to the Yahoo Personals section for that.
Reply:Alien
Reply:not into it
Reply:on a scale through ! and 10 your a seven
So not that i really care, but i am curious, i just learned how to post my picture in my avatar and would be curious to see how many people thought i was attractive, you can be rude if you want, i get the nature of my question...but you might not get the ten points!!
Thanks!
Online dating?
Your very attractive. I don't know why you want to go on the internet to meet people. I am sure the girls are knocking your door down and the phone never stops ringing.
Besides you look to mature to go into those sites and play games. And to me that is what they do on there
But I am sure you will get some responds from people on here . Be careful they aren't under the age of 18.
Reply:Meeting people online isn't always a good idea, trust me. Just be more confident in the real world! Flirt, talk, etc with girls. And if you get rejected or something don't let it get to you! Just keep trying. And in answer to your question on a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say you were a 7 which is good. If you really want to meet people online then I suggest using a dating agency website rather than this. Good luck x
Reply:im not a girl as im older way older but you are attractive especiallyyour eyes and oh if this isnt the forum for meeting its true then places like church and other like are not a place to meet either duh it just isnt a place to advertise but hey if you advertising then yeah find the personals...
Reply:Be careful meeting someone online. Of course, my husbands grandson met a lady from Cal. they married and are very happy. On the otherhand, I heard a girl met a guy she had been corresponding with online, he killed her. If I was single, I would never use this computer to find a date. I agree, I like the old fashioned way best.
Reply:Y!A seems like a pretty legit place to meet people online. you can get a lot of info from reading people answers or questions.
i'd still rather meet someone the old fashioned way though. but nothing wrong with online!
Reply:Go onto that certain section on the Yahoo! Answers and ask if anyone personally likes it, or answer someone's question with your own anecdote. I completely understand how you feel.
Reply:No, this is not the right place to hook up with people. Go to the Yahoo Personals section for that.
Reply:Alien
Reply:not into it
Reply:on a scale through ! and 10 your a seven
Online dating?
I was talking to this guy online and everything was going good until he asked me what I did for a living (law enforcement clerk). Then I never heard from him again?? Should I ask him what happened?
Online dating?
you need to forget his butt!!!!!!!!!
Reply:lol...thats funny...well don't think its becoz of your work though.
Yeah, ask him specifically what turned him off. That way you know and can improve in the future.
Reply:No don't! Let him go girly! Sounds like he might have a history of drama! Move on and find someone with no drama! You will be happier in the long run! Good luck!
Online dating?
you need to forget his butt!!!!!!!!!
Reply:lol...thats funny...well don't think its becoz of your work though.
Yeah, ask him specifically what turned him off. That way you know and can improve in the future.
Reply:No don't! Let him go girly! Sounds like he might have a history of drama! Move on and find someone with no drama! You will be happier in the long run! Good luck!
Online dating?
im looking for a free online Fling website for adults? are there any out there?!?
Online dating?
try this other site
Reply:hmm.......not that I know of, sorry
try vietsingle.com if you're into dating Asians
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Online dating?
try this other site
Reply:hmm.......not that I know of, sorry
try vietsingle.com if you're into dating Asians
dental bridge
Online Dating?
I met a guy online and i'm 19 he's 23. He became my first everything. He's been saying that i'm imature, I don't have a job, and I can't please him sexually. He wanted to see me 1 day last week I told him yes but then started complaining ab my day %26amp; told him it would take 45 min 2 get dressed, he said I changed my mind. I think he's tired of me, but I want to change and still be with him. I went over there 2 x's and he didn't open the door %26amp; he was there. I left him a letter and came back and had 2 yell through the door 4 him 2 let me in. He said it was 3 things he wanted sexually, I did 1 willingly and the other I told him to stop. I told him I had been hanging with another guy over the weekend and he threw me out. I came back that night and had 2 argue 4 him 2 let me in. He said I was crazy among other things %26amp; I told him I had 2 take my bro home we just came frm the studio he got mad %26amp; said I don;t want peep know where I live, Good Bye. That was 2 days ago should I go there 2night.
Online Dating?
no dont just leave it for awhile and talk to other guys he aint worth it
Reply:Dear..you should give your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ. The way you are headed right now..is a disastrous life of big disappointments. If you give your life to Christ, His Holy Spirit will direct your heart every day on what you should do..including any dating. Right now your life is focused on things that will never satisfy you.. and you are hanging around people that will destroy your life. God bless !
Reply:NO. He sounds like he's a lot more work than he's worth. What's with having to yell through the door for him to let you in? If anyone's immature, it's him. He's playing games, and he likes you to chase him. Let him go. Find a man who isn't so into drama, or so into himself. Remember, it's about YOU too.
Reply:Uhhh I'm confused. Here, let me edit your question so I can process it...
Okay so I met a guy online. He's 23 years old, and I'm 19. He became my fist everything(???). But lately, he's been saying that I'm immature, I don't have a job, and I can't please him sexually.
He wanted to see me in person (for the first time???) one day last week. I said that sounded good, but then I started complaining about my day and I told him it would take me 45 minutes to get dressed. That's when he changed his mind.
I think he's tired of me, but I want to change so I can still be with him. I went to his house twice, but he never opened the door, even though he was there. I left him a note on his door. Later, I went back to his house, having to yell through the door for him to finally let me in his house.
He said there were three things he wanted sexually. I did one of the things willingly, but I told him I would not do the other two. Then I told him that I had been out with another guy over the weekend... he threw me out.
That night I came back and argued with him before he finally let me inside his house. He said I was crazy (among other things) and so I told him I had to leave... a mere excuse (right?). So I left and that's that.
This was two days ago... should I go there tonight??
My advice.... no. He sounds like he only wants you for sexual stuff. I mean, you don't even know him that well, he's some guy you met online. Leave him and go hang out with that other guy again. Really, I don't want you get hurt... leave him! Hope everything works out.
Online Dating?
no dont just leave it for awhile and talk to other guys he aint worth it
Reply:Dear..you should give your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ. The way you are headed right now..is a disastrous life of big disappointments. If you give your life to Christ, His Holy Spirit will direct your heart every day on what you should do..including any dating. Right now your life is focused on things that will never satisfy you.. and you are hanging around people that will destroy your life. God bless !
Reply:NO. He sounds like he's a lot more work than he's worth. What's with having to yell through the door for him to let you in? If anyone's immature, it's him. He's playing games, and he likes you to chase him. Let him go. Find a man who isn't so into drama, or so into himself. Remember, it's about YOU too.
Reply:Uhhh I'm confused. Here, let me edit your question so I can process it...
Okay so I met a guy online. He's 23 years old, and I'm 19. He became my fist everything(???). But lately, he's been saying that I'm immature, I don't have a job, and I can't please him sexually.
He wanted to see me in person (for the first time???) one day last week. I said that sounded good, but then I started complaining about my day and I told him it would take me 45 minutes to get dressed. That's when he changed his mind.
I think he's tired of me, but I want to change so I can still be with him. I went to his house twice, but he never opened the door, even though he was there. I left him a note on his door. Later, I went back to his house, having to yell through the door for him to finally let me in his house.
He said there were three things he wanted sexually. I did one of the things willingly, but I told him I would not do the other two. Then I told him that I had been out with another guy over the weekend... he threw me out.
That night I came back and argued with him before he finally let me inside his house. He said I was crazy (among other things) and so I told him I had to leave... a mere excuse (right?). So I left and that's that.
This was two days ago... should I go there tonight??
My advice.... no. He sounds like he only wants you for sexual stuff. I mean, you don't even know him that well, he's some guy you met online. Leave him and go hang out with that other guy again. Really, I don't want you get hurt... leave him! Hope everything works out.
Online Dating?
Some people on yahoo or other chatroom web sites want or already have a boyfriend or girlfriend online. I think that that is kinda dumb because they will probably never see them or know if they are real. I want to know what other people think.
Online Dating?
Sight unseen! You can't tell who you are writing to, even if they send you a picture, you don't know if it is them. There are all kinds of predators out there!
Reply:whatever u think is real....will be real....and if u think it is make-believe...then it is...its how u perceive and react to it
Reply:Online dating? Well, I think it's ok to start out online and then move to the "real" world. But yeah calling that person that you only met online your b/f is just immature.
Reply:People get sucked into a fantasy. Married people can have relationships and soothe their consciences by saying its not really cheating because they never touch. Shy people use it to come out and be what they would never be in person. Ugly people use it because they can't get a date in real life.
Reply:Well i happen to think its worth my time. im in a onine relationship. its going pretty well. i like it because you get to know the person on the indisde first. and dont just base them on their looks. if your seroius like my boi and i. you will meet. just make a plan.
Reply:I think there's no such thing as an "online boy/girlfriend".
Reply:it's dumb, i met a guy in person and i didn't like him..... maybe it can work if they like each other......
Reply:I met my wife online, we've been very happily married for two years.
Reply:My father does this and tells people he is someone different / raising us kids...etc.! I would be very weary about online dating...you never really know who you are talking to...hopefully not my freak of a father!
Reply:Well u see, they are players out there. Thats why they have a online girl and a real girl friend. Ur right that is stupid to do. U should only have one partner. I met my girl online. Its been hard at times, because its long distance, but when u meet them and get to know them and like everything, then all is good. No matter where u met them at from the start
Reply:I think it's a bunch of bull, alot of people use theese chat rooms to cheat, and besides these losers should get out of the house and meet some real people.
Reply:Did you hear about the sex phone operator that was blind %26amp; fat but men that were calling thought she was a sexy woman? I agree! I dont know why people do it, desperation I guess....
Reply:Well, with on-line only relationships, it's true, you REALLY don't know who you are actually chatting with. I won't continue to chat with anyone who can't send me recent pictures. You have to trust your gut instincts and decide if the person is being honest or is just a sham. But sometimes it really doesn't matter and it just becomes all about the fantasy and if it satisfying to you.
Have fun!
xo
Online Dating?
Sight unseen! You can't tell who you are writing to, even if they send you a picture, you don't know if it is them. There are all kinds of predators out there!
Reply:whatever u think is real....will be real....and if u think it is make-believe...then it is...its how u perceive and react to it
Reply:Online dating? Well, I think it's ok to start out online and then move to the "real" world. But yeah calling that person that you only met online your b/f is just immature.
Reply:People get sucked into a fantasy. Married people can have relationships and soothe their consciences by saying its not really cheating because they never touch. Shy people use it to come out and be what they would never be in person. Ugly people use it because they can't get a date in real life.
Reply:Well i happen to think its worth my time. im in a onine relationship. its going pretty well. i like it because you get to know the person on the indisde first. and dont just base them on their looks. if your seroius like my boi and i. you will meet. just make a plan.
Reply:I think there's no such thing as an "online boy/girlfriend".
Reply:it's dumb, i met a guy in person and i didn't like him..... maybe it can work if they like each other......
Reply:I met my wife online, we've been very happily married for two years.
Reply:My father does this and tells people he is someone different / raising us kids...etc.! I would be very weary about online dating...you never really know who you are talking to...hopefully not my freak of a father!
Reply:Well u see, they are players out there. Thats why they have a online girl and a real girl friend. Ur right that is stupid to do. U should only have one partner. I met my girl online. Its been hard at times, because its long distance, but when u meet them and get to know them and like everything, then all is good. No matter where u met them at from the start
Reply:I think it's a bunch of bull, alot of people use theese chat rooms to cheat, and besides these losers should get out of the house and meet some real people.
Reply:Did you hear about the sex phone operator that was blind %26amp; fat but men that were calling thought she was a sexy woman? I agree! I dont know why people do it, desperation I guess....
Reply:Well, with on-line only relationships, it's true, you REALLY don't know who you are actually chatting with. I won't continue to chat with anyone who can't send me recent pictures. You have to trust your gut instincts and decide if the person is being honest or is just a sham. But sometimes it really doesn't matter and it just becomes all about the fantasy and if it satisfying to you.
Have fun!
xo
Online Dating ?
I have met a girl online (eharmony). We finished the introductory questions and now have been emailing each other for the past few days. As it ends up, we went to high school together, but did not know each other all that well. How long should I wait before I ask here for her phone number?
Online Dating ?
When you feel the time is right. When you think she would want you to ask. Every girl is different so sorry but that's all I can tell you! She may be playing hard to get or she may be openly showing her interest.
Whenever you want to!
Reply:Great! I would suggest not "pushing" the ph. number thing just yet. Keep writting though! Is say give it a week or so and don't be surprised if she asks you for yours!
Reply:If the emails are going well enough for you to be wondering how a conversation might go...give her your cell number! Hey, its the "aughts", let her call you....man, I can hear the eharmony jingle now....this will be....an everlasting love !! Memorial weekends coming up-invite her to your shindig!! Live man Live!!!
Online Dating ?
When you feel the time is right. When you think she would want you to ask. Every girl is different so sorry but that's all I can tell you! She may be playing hard to get or she may be openly showing her interest.
Whenever you want to!
Reply:Great! I would suggest not "pushing" the ph. number thing just yet. Keep writting though! Is say give it a week or so and don't be surprised if she asks you for yours!
Reply:If the emails are going well enough for you to be wondering how a conversation might go...give her your cell number! Hey, its the "aughts", let her call you....man, I can hear the eharmony jingle now....this will be....an everlasting love !! Memorial weekends coming up-invite her to your shindig!! Live man Live!!!
Online dating?
Ive been emailing this woman online for about a week now. The conversation is good. Im a little leary on how soon I should ask for her #. I don't want to seem too eager. Should I offer her mine instead or let her ask for it?
Online dating?
I would say offer your number...Just be careful.
Don't give her your job or home number until you get to know her good. If you have a cell number then offer it. Hope it works out for you!!!
Reply:wait just that bit longer get to know her more. then ask her for hers. if she feels that is to much offer her yrs then.
Reply:ask her if she wants your number?
Reply:A week is good. Offer her your number. I think that will take off some of the stress. If your convos have been good, she'll be calling you in no time.
Reply:your good ask for hers but tell her if its better for here heres my number. lets her decide how to move to the next step
Reply:go with your gut feeling
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Online dating?
I would say offer your number...Just be careful.
Don't give her your job or home number until you get to know her good. If you have a cell number then offer it. Hope it works out for you!!!
Reply:wait just that bit longer get to know her more. then ask her for hers. if she feels that is to much offer her yrs then.
Reply:ask her if she wants your number?
Reply:A week is good. Offer her your number. I think that will take off some of the stress. If your convos have been good, she'll be calling you in no time.
Reply:your good ask for hers but tell her if its better for here heres my number. lets her decide how to move to the next step
Reply:go with your gut feeling
dental floss
Online dating?
I have been chatting with this guy on and off for about 5 years he seems perfect. We get along great talk on the phone for hours. Is it safe to fall in love over the internet? Has anyone ever met some one online and had it worked out?
Online dating?
Yes, there have been many that have had success from on line match making sites. I'm not one of them, I thought I was but I couldn't handle the fact she was married to a bi-sexual and he thought it was fine for him to get off on other guys on line but she couldn't. We had a great time while it lasted and I still have nothing but good feelings for her but her soon to be ex is too much for her to handle and I refuse to accept him in any shape or form.
Reply:No, it's not. Internet is safe and you can do what you want but once you meet the person. His mind or his fantasy dispappear and it's reality. Meet and date and you will see it for yourself.
Reply:Someone I used to work with met her now husband via a dating site - so it can happen. But rememeber, if you've never met in person you can't possibly expect it to work in the real world.
Reply:well ive had an internet relationship and a phone relationship. if you just talk to him on the internet you probably shouldnt fall in love cause its easy to get away with cheating. over the phone is ok mine lasted 4 months. we never really saw eachother either. but you can only fall half in love because you can never get the satisfaction of waking up to his face the next day you cant kiss him he cant hold you. so unless you meet him your only halfway in love
Reply:not really
Reply:I am currently dating a man I met through match.com and he is the best boyfriend I have EVER had. I think it can work. I have also met other guys online where there was nothing there when you meet in person. It's all chance.
I say meet him because if you don't you will never know. But be safe and meet in a public place that you are comfortable in and know the surroundings. Make it a quick coffee date and go from there. You can always hang out longer if it works out. :-)
Good luck!
Online dating?
Yes, there have been many that have had success from on line match making sites. I'm not one of them, I thought I was but I couldn't handle the fact she was married to a bi-sexual and he thought it was fine for him to get off on other guys on line but she couldn't. We had a great time while it lasted and I still have nothing but good feelings for her but her soon to be ex is too much for her to handle and I refuse to accept him in any shape or form.
Reply:No, it's not. Internet is safe and you can do what you want but once you meet the person. His mind or his fantasy dispappear and it's reality. Meet and date and you will see it for yourself.
Reply:Someone I used to work with met her now husband via a dating site - so it can happen. But rememeber, if you've never met in person you can't possibly expect it to work in the real world.
Reply:well ive had an internet relationship and a phone relationship. if you just talk to him on the internet you probably shouldnt fall in love cause its easy to get away with cheating. over the phone is ok mine lasted 4 months. we never really saw eachother either. but you can only fall half in love because you can never get the satisfaction of waking up to his face the next day you cant kiss him he cant hold you. so unless you meet him your only halfway in love
Reply:not really
Reply:I am currently dating a man I met through match.com and he is the best boyfriend I have EVER had. I think it can work. I have also met other guys online where there was nothing there when you meet in person. It's all chance.
I say meet him because if you don't you will never know. But be safe and meet in a public place that you are comfortable in and know the surroundings. Make it a quick coffee date and go from there. You can always hang out longer if it works out. :-)
Good luck!
Online dating?
i like this guy online i mean we talk every day but he lives so far away and i don't know him in r/l i know its stupid but should i tell him? i mean i want 2 cuz i really like him but i don't wanna lose him as a friend even if i don't know him plz helpppppppppppp, should i just b his friend and 4get about anything else that could happen between us?
Online dating?
If you're as close with this guy as you say you are, tell him. If he acts funny about it, say you were joking. That way he'll think you're making funny and only you'll know the truth.
Reply:go for it but be very carfull!! my boy friend his mom was talkin to a guy online and they ened up getting married and now they are living happly every after! no joke! take a chance!
Reply:I dont know....its really up to you....in my opinion I would NEVER meet a man online for the simple fact I have read way too many horror stories about it but I have known a few people who met someone online and he wasnt a total freak....Just follow your heart and only you can answer that question...
Ohh and if you do decide to meet this guy bring a friend and meet in a public place.....Good luck
Reply:be careful.....
Online dating?
If you're as close with this guy as you say you are, tell him. If he acts funny about it, say you were joking. That way he'll think you're making funny and only you'll know the truth.
Reply:go for it but be very carfull!! my boy friend his mom was talkin to a guy online and they ened up getting married and now they are living happly every after! no joke! take a chance!
Reply:I dont know....its really up to you....in my opinion I would NEVER meet a man online for the simple fact I have read way too many horror stories about it but I have known a few people who met someone online and he wasnt a total freak....Just follow your heart and only you can answer that question...
Ohh and if you do decide to meet this guy bring a friend and meet in a public place.....Good luck
Reply:be careful.....
Online dating ?
i met a girl online. We talked for a few days and then one night it got a little heavy with sex and she was doing phone sex. Since then she is very sexual with me. She wants to meet me and go at it for a weekend. I met her through Yahoo personnals. Her profile says 22 which is fine. Its just weird that she is wanting to have phone sex all the time. I am not complaining but I figure two things. 1 She is not the person who pictures she put up. 2. She just likes sex a lot and its fun for her to do this with not strings. So what can I do to confirm what she look like and her age. She has only seen a few pictures of me and says I am so hott. Is this normal for a woman to get this turned on by just some guys pictures.
Online dating ?
Everybody is different, sir. Trying to find confirmation about a generalization about what does or does not turn women on is a big mistake. So I would say, yes, it is possible she could become that aroused merely by your image, or perhaps you are overlooking the context of your phone conversations with her as a motive. Maybe she also likes the sound of your voice. One generalization that is supported by research is that women tend to be aroused in "layers" that are emotional, mental and physical all at once. Try not to pigeon-hole her sexual tendencies. You could try directly asking her what it is about you or your profile that turns her on so, I doubt she'd have any good reason to lie to you about it.
And yes, I am female, happily married with children, and I met my husband on an internet dating site. Always be honest about who you are and what you are looking for, and your online dating adventures should prove to be a success.
Reply:I met my fiance online, but we never were into the heavy talk over the phone. She sounds a little needy or you are right on the idea of the pics not being her. Maybe she is a freak and gets off on your voice over the phone, you never know. You should tell her you want to meet her before you all talk sexually on the phone anymore. Then you will know what the deal is with her. But, normally we don't get all that freaked out over seeing a guys picture but all girls are different so it is hard telling.
Reply:I thought I was the only one that had this problem. But hes the one that started it. I'm wondering how normal is he.Theres always a web cam. They are not very expensive. My guy is in another state. I didn't think it was possible to get that turned on. I'm afraid that it wont be as exciting if we actually meet. I'm honest about my my age and appearance. Please let me know how things turn out and I'm open for advice also because I am really smitten.
Reply:I do this all the time. The hottest sex Ive ever had. Go with the flow. I met this guy once who was a fireman, treated me like a hydrant for three days straight.....ah the memories.
Reply:meet her somewhere like a bar, ask what shell be wearing so you can spot her, if you dont like her, then bolt
Reply:I would be careful and leary. This seems to be common in the on-line world. If she is doing this with you this quickly, I'm sure she does this with everyone.
Reply:yu have to be way carefull with online datting stuff the only thing you can do is meet her and hope things work out
Reply:better be careful.. it might be a dude..
Reply:Its normal for Yahoo personals to have loads of fake profiles. thats all I can tell you.
Reply:You either have someone being who they are not the real deal. Fact: 40% of people on dating sites are married.Profile means nothing.Ask "her" for "her" phone number.If she does not give it to leave leave her alone. If she does talk to her. After a weeks or to of "really" knowing her have meet at a very public place with a lot of people. If this goes well try more public places in the future. After about a month and a half If things work out ,gradually do more stuff with her out of public. If she is some crazed sex maniac then you might just have new **** buddy.
Online dating ?
Everybody is different, sir. Trying to find confirmation about a generalization about what does or does not turn women on is a big mistake. So I would say, yes, it is possible she could become that aroused merely by your image, or perhaps you are overlooking the context of your phone conversations with her as a motive. Maybe she also likes the sound of your voice. One generalization that is supported by research is that women tend to be aroused in "layers" that are emotional, mental and physical all at once. Try not to pigeon-hole her sexual tendencies. You could try directly asking her what it is about you or your profile that turns her on so, I doubt she'd have any good reason to lie to you about it.
And yes, I am female, happily married with children, and I met my husband on an internet dating site. Always be honest about who you are and what you are looking for, and your online dating adventures should prove to be a success.
Reply:I met my fiance online, but we never were into the heavy talk over the phone. She sounds a little needy or you are right on the idea of the pics not being her. Maybe she is a freak and gets off on your voice over the phone, you never know. You should tell her you want to meet her before you all talk sexually on the phone anymore. Then you will know what the deal is with her. But, normally we don't get all that freaked out over seeing a guys picture but all girls are different so it is hard telling.
Reply:I thought I was the only one that had this problem. But hes the one that started it. I'm wondering how normal is he.Theres always a web cam. They are not very expensive. My guy is in another state. I didn't think it was possible to get that turned on. I'm afraid that it wont be as exciting if we actually meet. I'm honest about my my age and appearance. Please let me know how things turn out and I'm open for advice also because I am really smitten.
Reply:I do this all the time. The hottest sex Ive ever had. Go with the flow. I met this guy once who was a fireman, treated me like a hydrant for three days straight.....ah the memories.
Reply:meet her somewhere like a bar, ask what shell be wearing so you can spot her, if you dont like her, then bolt
Reply:I would be careful and leary. This seems to be common in the on-line world. If she is doing this with you this quickly, I'm sure she does this with everyone.
Reply:yu have to be way carefull with online datting stuff the only thing you can do is meet her and hope things work out
Reply:better be careful.. it might be a dude..
Reply:Its normal for Yahoo personals to have loads of fake profiles. thats all I can tell you.
Reply:You either have someone being who they are not the real deal. Fact: 40% of people on dating sites are married.Profile means nothing.Ask "her" for "her" phone number.If she does not give it to leave leave her alone. If she does talk to her. After a weeks or to of "really" knowing her have meet at a very public place with a lot of people. If this goes well try more public places in the future. After about a month and a half If things work out ,gradually do more stuff with her out of public. If she is some crazed sex maniac then you might just have new **** buddy.
Online dating?
I'm 15, I have a mutual crush on a guy who is 14. We don't go to the same school and we live too far apart to see each other too often. We met at camp and we've been in contact via email and 1 phone call(interupted, though, so could be said to be two). Should we become online bf %26amp; gf or what?
Online dating?
Yeah, if you actually know the guy, that's perfectly fine! I wouldn't online date someone like if I'd never met them before, but since you know him, then why not? Go for it!
Reply:I met my boyfriend through a friend once, then spoke to him online for another year before I met him again. We weren't boyfriend and girlfriend at the time we met, nor were we for a long time after that.
You're still very young, so you really need to think about it carefully. Long distance is really difficult, you don't have the same kind of interaction. I am older so I am thinking as more of a long term arrangement. But since you're much younger, you have to think of the long term implications.
Plus, once you want to get more serious you will have to wait until...college? Talk to each other more. If you end up falling for him, and he cheats on you. You won't know through seeing them together or word of mouth, because of the distance. And if he feels like being dishonest, he doesn't necessarily have to tell you? Plus he's 14, that's quite young to decide when you want to have a long distance relationship. When he gets older things may change. I dunno, good luck though!
Reply:You are too young to commit yourself to a on-line relationship. on-line people tend to be alot more bold with words and this could lead to problems. You are young and have plenty of time to worry yourself about guys, be on-line friends not bf/gf. And later on when you guys can see one another on a regular chance it then.
Reply:What's the point of not dating locally, so you can have a long distance chat buddy?
You're too young to be dating anyway (16), but when that time comes pick local guys and don't sit at home on the computer for a 'date'.
Reply:i say it's worth a try. i am 'dating' a guy online, he lives on the other side of the country than i do... but it doesn't matter, we're not going to let distance keep us apart. i'm going this summer to meet him for the first time (my family is coming with me) =)
good luck, i hope everything works out for you two! =)
Reply:online/long distance relationships dont work in the long run dont waste your time
Reply:Sure why not. Many relationships are being carried on over the internet.
The internet has opened up a whole new world in the relationship area, etc. It has led to many happy unions, marriages, etc. It is just another way of meeting people, and contrary to what some may say, relationships that blossom on the internet, last just as well as any others.
If you both enjoy this, then why not? Having fun is what life is about. And don't worry about what others say if they diss you. They are just jealous.
And yes, you are plenty old to be dating. Don't listen to the old foggies. Have fun and enjoy life!
Good luck.
Reply:i would go for no...try meeting someone in your area...its better to be able to see the person you like instead of over the phone and e-mail
Reply:Being an online bf/gf will just get your heart broken. Only love irl, you'll be much happier.
Reply:That's sweet. Just be careful.
Reply:If you really like then yeah go for it. People can be themselves online and even though a physical relatinship is misssing, you can still have feelings for each other. Soon you will be able to drive anyway and you can go meet him! Ater two years of online dating when you finally meet again it'll be a dream for you :)
Hope this helps
Reply:they usually don't work out in the long run
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Online dating?
Yeah, if you actually know the guy, that's perfectly fine! I wouldn't online date someone like if I'd never met them before, but since you know him, then why not? Go for it!
Reply:I met my boyfriend through a friend once, then spoke to him online for another year before I met him again. We weren't boyfriend and girlfriend at the time we met, nor were we for a long time after that.
You're still very young, so you really need to think about it carefully. Long distance is really difficult, you don't have the same kind of interaction. I am older so I am thinking as more of a long term arrangement. But since you're much younger, you have to think of the long term implications.
Plus, once you want to get more serious you will have to wait until...college? Talk to each other more. If you end up falling for him, and he cheats on you. You won't know through seeing them together or word of mouth, because of the distance. And if he feels like being dishonest, he doesn't necessarily have to tell you? Plus he's 14, that's quite young to decide when you want to have a long distance relationship. When he gets older things may change. I dunno, good luck though!
Reply:You are too young to commit yourself to a on-line relationship. on-line people tend to be alot more bold with words and this could lead to problems. You are young and have plenty of time to worry yourself about guys, be on-line friends not bf/gf. And later on when you guys can see one another on a regular chance it then.
Reply:What's the point of not dating locally, so you can have a long distance chat buddy?
You're too young to be dating anyway (16), but when that time comes pick local guys and don't sit at home on the computer for a 'date'.
Reply:i say it's worth a try. i am 'dating' a guy online, he lives on the other side of the country than i do... but it doesn't matter, we're not going to let distance keep us apart. i'm going this summer to meet him for the first time (my family is coming with me) =)
good luck, i hope everything works out for you two! =)
Reply:online/long distance relationships dont work in the long run dont waste your time
Reply:Sure why not. Many relationships are being carried on over the internet.
The internet has opened up a whole new world in the relationship area, etc. It has led to many happy unions, marriages, etc. It is just another way of meeting people, and contrary to what some may say, relationships that blossom on the internet, last just as well as any others.
If you both enjoy this, then why not? Having fun is what life is about. And don't worry about what others say if they diss you. They are just jealous.
And yes, you are plenty old to be dating. Don't listen to the old foggies. Have fun and enjoy life!
Good luck.
Reply:i would go for no...try meeting someone in your area...its better to be able to see the person you like instead of over the phone and e-mail
Reply:Being an online bf/gf will just get your heart broken. Only love irl, you'll be much happier.
Reply:That's sweet. Just be careful.
Reply:If you really like then yeah go for it. People can be themselves online and even though a physical relatinship is misssing, you can still have feelings for each other. Soon you will be able to drive anyway and you can go meet him! Ater two years of online dating when you finally meet again it'll be a dream for you :)
Hope this helps
Reply:they usually don't work out in the long run
dental supply
Online dating?
well okay I was wondering is a interenet gf or bf the right way 2 go and then see eachother after getting 2 no them. i heard it is quite a challenge but its worth it becuz love is everywhere. my cousin met her true love on the computer she is 16 i am 15 yrs old soooo.... should i go for the online relationship or just someone around my house(that i no that is dogs )...XD
so yea, i no theres not a problem with me but every guy i ever datied we had to break up becuz i move alot. i never been dumped before but i dnt want to be either should i put thi sin my decision also?
Online dating?
you should try it
you might meet the
person of your dreams
life is about taking risks
Right....
Reply:Just try!!!
Reply:give it a try!
Reply:I would definitely give it a try. I understand that with the constant moving that you do how it could be hard to maintain a relationship but to be honest, at 15 most relationships you have are just introductory courses for what you are looking for as a future husband. I wouldn't put all my marbles in one bag so to speak and only try to find that certain someone online. You're young enough to get involved in social activities outside the house to find someone with common interests. Good luck in your endeavours and remember to always be upfront and honest. Letting someone you know in town that you could possibly be moving might help them understand when the time comes and for the two of you to keep in contact via email and so forth.
Take care.
so yea, i no theres not a problem with me but every guy i ever datied we had to break up becuz i move alot. i never been dumped before but i dnt want to be either should i put thi sin my decision also?
Online dating?
you should try it
you might meet the
person of your dreams
life is about taking risks
Right....
Reply:Just try!!!
Reply:give it a try!
Reply:I would definitely give it a try. I understand that with the constant moving that you do how it could be hard to maintain a relationship but to be honest, at 15 most relationships you have are just introductory courses for what you are looking for as a future husband. I wouldn't put all my marbles in one bag so to speak and only try to find that certain someone online. You're young enough to get involved in social activities outside the house to find someone with common interests. Good luck in your endeavours and remember to always be upfront and honest. Letting someone you know in town that you could possibly be moving might help them understand when the time comes and for the two of you to keep in contact via email and so forth.
Take care.
Online dating?
does anyone have any good experiences. I meet this guy on an online forum, we have been chating for five months now.
Online dating?
Unfortunately, the success stats aren't great for online dating. For each one that works, there are hundreds left in shreds. Thru friends and my own experiences, don't count on much and be REALLY careful. Some of these people are such wacky players it boggles the mind.
Wish I could give you a more positive response. But Good Luck, keep your eyes open. If he's told you that he loves you without meeting you ...beware!
Reply:yes lots of good experiences --- just be safe when and if you meet --- best wishes (and i am a guy)
Reply:it doesn't really work, it's dangerous, it's better to meet someone in real life. Try striking up a conversation at a coffee shop.
Reply:It never has worked out for myself,
Reply:depends. i did, and the guy met me once...it was from a stupid chat room...anyway, he met me, i decided it just wasnt going to work, i really liked him online but i guess i didn't like him in real life, and he started stalking me....this doesn't happen to most i'm guessing...but i would never do it again. as long as he doesn't want to met you when ur alone....then its fine. if u r going to meet, i kno this may sound like "tacky" or w/e but its for your safety, take a parent...they don't even have to be with you, they could be a distance away, but enough to see you, so if anything happens they could help.and if u think ur parents would kill you, take an aunt, or uncle or someone whos resposible...i don't want anyone to get hurt from something like that. best of luck
teething
Online dating?
Unfortunately, the success stats aren't great for online dating. For each one that works, there are hundreds left in shreds. Thru friends and my own experiences, don't count on much and be REALLY careful. Some of these people are such wacky players it boggles the mind.
Wish I could give you a more positive response. But Good Luck, keep your eyes open. If he's told you that he loves you without meeting you ...beware!
Reply:yes lots of good experiences --- just be safe when and if you meet --- best wishes (and i am a guy)
Reply:it doesn't really work, it's dangerous, it's better to meet someone in real life. Try striking up a conversation at a coffee shop.
Reply:It never has worked out for myself,
Reply:depends. i did, and the guy met me once...it was from a stupid chat room...anyway, he met me, i decided it just wasnt going to work, i really liked him online but i guess i didn't like him in real life, and he started stalking me....this doesn't happen to most i'm guessing...but i would never do it again. as long as he doesn't want to met you when ur alone....then its fine. if u r going to meet, i kno this may sound like "tacky" or w/e but its for your safety, take a parent...they don't even have to be with you, they could be a distance away, but enough to see you, so if anything happens they could help.and if u think ur parents would kill you, take an aunt, or uncle or someone whos resposible...i don't want anyone to get hurt from something like that. best of luck
teething
Online dating...?
im dating a girl who lives in Cali...and i wanna go see her..but idk if i should or shouldnt...wtf should i do?!?!?
Online dating...?
first off ask her if she would like to have company, second of all make sure you have cash there and back, then take it from there.
Online dating...?
first off ask her if she would like to have company, second of all make sure you have cash there and back, then take it from there.
Online dating....?
i have cerebral palsy. i walk with a slight limp, otherwise you wouldn't be able to tell. i have been connecting with this girl online pretty well. i havent told her that i have cerebral palsy and eventually i want to meet her. it's only been a few days. when should i tell her? i dont want to wait until i finally do meet her to tell her.
Online dating....?
I find it best to just be honest up front. This way you will find out if what you have is real or just a mere fantasy. If she shuns you due to having CP then you would be better off telling her in the beginning versus finding out later after you have grown more attached.
Reply:Tell her whenever YOU feel comfortable doing so. If she really likes you it should not be a problem for her. I'm not saying keep it a secret forever but you said it has only been a couple of days, it would be understandable if you were not quite ready to spit out that fact about yourself.
Reply:Be honest as soon as you can! The longer you wait the worse it could be. If you wait till you meet in person she may decide you aren't the one for her for not telling her right off. She would wonder what else you are keeping from her and if you'll do it on a regular basis.
Reply:Let her know right away this way you are up front and honest, hey if she really likes you it may not matter to her if you have a disability. Good luck.
Online dating....?
I find it best to just be honest up front. This way you will find out if what you have is real or just a mere fantasy. If she shuns you due to having CP then you would be better off telling her in the beginning versus finding out later after you have grown more attached.
Reply:Tell her whenever YOU feel comfortable doing so. If she really likes you it should not be a problem for her. I'm not saying keep it a secret forever but you said it has only been a couple of days, it would be understandable if you were not quite ready to spit out that fact about yourself.
Reply:Be honest as soon as you can! The longer you wait the worse it could be. If you wait till you meet in person she may decide you aren't the one for her for not telling her right off. She would wonder what else you are keeping from her and if you'll do it on a regular basis.
Reply:Let her know right away this way you are up front and honest, hey if she really likes you it may not matter to her if you have a disability. Good luck.
Online Dating?
What is the best online way to meet new people...do people use fake (more appealing) pictures to draw more attention to themselves?
Online Dating?
I have done the online dating thing and my advice to be careful. Yes, people use pictures that will show them in their best light. Sometimes, they are from 20 yrs or before they gained that extra 50 lbs. They will also lie about how many children they have, how many times they have been engaged/married, whether or not they have a job, what kind of job, etc. Also lots of married and otherwise "taken" men, and probably women, are on there just looking to get laid.
If you meet someone you're interested in, do a background check. It's a little pricey but worth it if you find out someone is married or seriously in debt.
I'm not saying that you can't find a nice person on the internet, just be very careful and move slowly.
Here's a story for you:
I had one friend that met guy, they "fell in love" immediately, he bought her a ring, moved into her home and in less than a yr, they broke up because he "couldn't be himself with her". Meanwhile, he spent all her savings and she had to sell the ring to survive. Now he is engaged to someone else.....less than 5 months later. It wasn't really love, he just needed a place to stay and someone to be his mommy.
Reply:I've used the online dating services just to see what they're like etc...and yes, fake pictures are used. I've had different people lie about their backgrounds/education/looks etc...I didn't have good luck with them. Now about this part, which I'm serious about, most of the time people are there have serious personality flaws, I've discovered this by being in chatrooms with close friends of mine anyway and meeting others along the way. If you can, it's best to meet people while you're out with friends etc....it takes half of the guesswork out; you know? =)
Reply:of course they do because they are afriad that you might not like them for the way they look really and thats y
Reply:Either join dating websites or sites that you have interest in (Hobbies and such) and you can meet people that way.
Some people online are honest, some are not...it takes time to weed through all that and figure out if whomever you are chatting with, is someone you'd like to meet offline or not.
Good luck!
Reply:honestly, don't bother with online dating, if you're never going to meet the person, cos when a real opportunity comes along you're pretty likely to blow off your online date, and if not, you're stupid for letting a real experience pass you by. its a no-win situation. you'll think you're doing fine, but at the end of the day, you're just plugged into a wall.
Reply:Don't meet people online. I know from the experiences of people around me that people put up pictures of them at their very best looking...that could mean it was taken 5 years ago, at a flattering angle when they're really not very attractive, etc. Also, people have the opportunity to lie or embellish much more than they would in person, because there is no eye contact or good ol' intuition. Find someone in real life. You'll have a better chance at finding someone worthwhile.
Reply:try www.american-personals.net, i found that it is the best site and has very attractive and nice people.
Reply:yes they do
Online Dating?
I have done the online dating thing and my advice to be careful. Yes, people use pictures that will show them in their best light. Sometimes, they are from 20 yrs or before they gained that extra 50 lbs. They will also lie about how many children they have, how many times they have been engaged/married, whether or not they have a job, what kind of job, etc. Also lots of married and otherwise "taken" men, and probably women, are on there just looking to get laid.
If you meet someone you're interested in, do a background check. It's a little pricey but worth it if you find out someone is married or seriously in debt.
I'm not saying that you can't find a nice person on the internet, just be very careful and move slowly.
Here's a story for you:
I had one friend that met guy, they "fell in love" immediately, he bought her a ring, moved into her home and in less than a yr, they broke up because he "couldn't be himself with her". Meanwhile, he spent all her savings and she had to sell the ring to survive. Now he is engaged to someone else.....less than 5 months later. It wasn't really love, he just needed a place to stay and someone to be his mommy.
Reply:I've used the online dating services just to see what they're like etc...and yes, fake pictures are used. I've had different people lie about their backgrounds/education/looks etc...I didn't have good luck with them. Now about this part, which I'm serious about, most of the time people are there have serious personality flaws, I've discovered this by being in chatrooms with close friends of mine anyway and meeting others along the way. If you can, it's best to meet people while you're out with friends etc....it takes half of the guesswork out; you know? =)
Reply:of course they do because they are afriad that you might not like them for the way they look really and thats y
Reply:Either join dating websites or sites that you have interest in (Hobbies and such) and you can meet people that way.
Some people online are honest, some are not...it takes time to weed through all that and figure out if whomever you are chatting with, is someone you'd like to meet offline or not.
Good luck!
Reply:honestly, don't bother with online dating, if you're never going to meet the person, cos when a real opportunity comes along you're pretty likely to blow off your online date, and if not, you're stupid for letting a real experience pass you by. its a no-win situation. you'll think you're doing fine, but at the end of the day, you're just plugged into a wall.
Reply:Don't meet people online. I know from the experiences of people around me that people put up pictures of them at their very best looking...that could mean it was taken 5 years ago, at a flattering angle when they're really not very attractive, etc. Also, people have the opportunity to lie or embellish much more than they would in person, because there is no eye contact or good ol' intuition. Find someone in real life. You'll have a better chance at finding someone worthwhile.
Reply:try www.american-personals.net, i found that it is the best site and has very attractive and nice people.
Reply:yes they do
Online Dating?
I met a guy online and i'm 19 he's 23. He became my first everything. He's been saying that i'm imature, I don't have a job, and I can't please him sexually. He wanted to see me 1 day last week I told him yes but then started complaining ab my day %26amp; told him it would take 45 min 2 get dressed, he said I changed my mind. I think he's tired of me, but I want to change and still be with him. I went over there 2 x's and he didn't open the door %26amp; he was there. I left him a letter and came back and had 2 yell through the door 4 him 2 let me in. He said it was 3 things he wanted sexually, I did 1 willingly and the other I told him to stop. I told him I had been hanging with another guy over the weekend and he threw me out. I came back that night and had 2 argue 4 him 2 let me in. He said I was crazy among other things %26amp; I told him I had 2 take my bro home we just came frm the studio he got mad %26amp; said I don;t want peep know where I live, Good Bye. That was 2 days ago should I go there 2night.
Online Dating?
The guy doesn't like you, why do you keep persisting after him? Are you aware of the many other guys who are more capable than he is in giving you what you want? If you don't know what you want in a guy, you need to figure it out asap before you start dating the next guy. Also most* guys who are on online dating sites just want to pick up chicks through window shopping. This however, isn't true for all guys who use online dating.
Reply:Why would you wonna tell your boyfriend that you had been hanging out with some guy? Was that true? Why? Not good! Never ever try to do ANYTHING to make a guy jealous to punish him. You may not live that down. That is on your part.
Now on his part. He does not like you. Why do you give your innocence to some jerkoff? He wants to have you as backup to screw in every kind of way. He does not care about your feelings and will only have you around when he wants some p... or a girl who he can disrespect and force to give him head or take it up the ... or some weird s..t. What do you want to change from? From foolish girl to HULK? Stop letting that guy f you like a b.... Peace
Reply:screw online dating...get to know a real person
Reply:I'm sorry this sounds too crazy for me to follow.
Reply:girl you crazy why put yourself through that..he might be crazy
dentures
Online Dating?
The guy doesn't like you, why do you keep persisting after him? Are you aware of the many other guys who are more capable than he is in giving you what you want? If you don't know what you want in a guy, you need to figure it out asap before you start dating the next guy. Also most* guys who are on online dating sites just want to pick up chicks through window shopping. This however, isn't true for all guys who use online dating.
Reply:Why would you wonna tell your boyfriend that you had been hanging out with some guy? Was that true? Why? Not good! Never ever try to do ANYTHING to make a guy jealous to punish him. You may not live that down. That is on your part.
Now on his part. He does not like you. Why do you give your innocence to some jerkoff? He wants to have you as backup to screw in every kind of way. He does not care about your feelings and will only have you around when he wants some p... or a girl who he can disrespect and force to give him head or take it up the ... or some weird s..t. What do you want to change from? From foolish girl to HULK? Stop letting that guy f you like a b.... Peace
Reply:screw online dating...get to know a real person
Reply:I'm sorry this sounds too crazy for me to follow.
Reply:girl you crazy why put yourself through that..he might be crazy
dentures
Online dating?
OK...Does this on line dating stuff really work? has anybody had any success with this?I am very leary about it and just was wondering if their is anybody that found this to work for them
Online dating?
it's the same as in real life...
The people are the same as in real life. You have to be careful about who you date in real life, too. And you will have the same success as you are having in real life. It's the same.
Reply:Ive been married for 3 years and I have two kids with an amazing, funny, sexy woman....yup met her on hot or not....of all the sites in the world.....I was 23 when I met her. Dont rely on it as your only source but dont cut it off completely
Reply:I've dated several guys I met online and I've never had any problems with anyone I've met. I was just careful about getting to know them via email and phone prior to agreeing to meet in person.
Reply:Mmmm it depends.. just try it!! Be honest ... I know some marriages' stories.. that started this way. I think we must take advantage of technology we have nowdays ..It´s a great mean of communication.. just don´t idealize the person ..try to chat online with her/his first ... in order to meet each other.
Good luck... but be careful... maybe you may find the love of your life ....
Reply:I think it's great if you approach it with care and are open minded. Be willing to accept the fact that the people you meet may not be Prince Charming off the bat.
My friend is currently in a relationship with a guy she met on Match.com and they've been having a great time. They've been together for almost a year. She's in her mid 30s and divorced, so it's kind of hard for her to meet people (we're in a small town and there aren't many fun places to out to). She's very happy!
I met my fiance online in a video game. We've been dating for 2 years. It's not a dating site, but hey... it just shows that people do have success by meeting people online.
Reply:Dangerous
Reply:I meet my boyfriend online so I guess it works. It wasnt on a dating site though. It was more like a friend site. and I wasnt looking to find someone but hey I did. Our relationship is okay. It has it's ups and downs like any other relationship but I cant complain.
Reply:My friend Johnson has got his lover at a dating site called millionairecupid.com. Seems it's quite a nice dating site.
Reply:the on-line dating stuff it is not seem to work out!
Reply:Hi I meet my 2 years ago on line. I am from the Uk she is from China. we are as happy as day 1, our first baby is due in just over a week,/
online dating worked for me, but like life we are all different, so try it..
I have started my little site, Try
http://onlytruelove.com
easy to join and FREE
Reply:ehhh. if you are going to do it, make sure u talk to the guy on the phone, and the first time you see him in person, bring friends. you never know who is on the computer at the other end. most of the time it is the good, sweet guy u think you are talking to but you just have to be careful
Reply:How can men succeed on dating sites?
Copyright (c) 2007 Drew Mcpherson
First you have to have a reasonable profile. Profiles are only of moderate importance, but they must be truthful. No uploading phony pictures, and no filling out fake personal details, like height, marital status, etc. Try to put something funny into you profile. People love to laugh, and if they are laughing at you, they might be loving you in the near future. Maybe tell a funny story about dating, or about a hobby or interest of yours. Avoid the tired old stereotypes of putting things like "not into head games", or "looking for someone honest". 75% of all profiles on the internet have these phrases in them and it becomes very booooring very fast. Make up something creative and unique that inspires an emotional reaction, like laughter, and it will stand out amongst the crowd. If you succeed in triggering someone's emotions right off the bat, you will get noticed.
Perhaps the most difficult part is getting that initial response. It is important to hedge your bet by sending out plenty of messages, but don't spread yourself too thin. It is important to put something meaningful and personal in the message you are sending. Form letters are a big turn-off. Try saying something in response to one of the comments in her profile, but don't waste too much time writing long winded messages on first contact. Also, don't waste your time reading her whole profile. Skim it quickly, in just a few seconds, and pick out anything that obviously stands out to work with in your initial message. Ideally, the shorter the initial message the better, but make sure whatever you write is intriguing enough that she will want to hear more. Messages like "hi, how's it going?" sometimes work, but if you say something more to the effect of "your picture reminds me of olden days, do you like dancing by any chance?" is way better. The best initial message is one which refers to something she specifically mentions in her profile. For instance, if she talks about liking dogs, ask her what her favourite kind of dog is. Or if she says she likes camping, say something like "you should hear about this one time I was camping and I forgot the tent!" If you put in a reference that alludes to a longer, more interesting story that will get her interested and wanting to read more. This is much like how newspaper journalists write a "hook" in the first couple sentences of a story. Make sure that whatever you write is truthful. Liars are always found out sooner or later and that will be the end of you right then and there. Also, if you can throw in a question, which will give her an obvious starting point for a reply, so much the better. Some women are stupid and uncreative and can't figure out how to respond to open-ended messages. Always provide some direction for a response. Sending messages without a leading question will definitely lower your conversion rate.
The next step is to get a witty banter going. After her first reply you should read her profile more thoroughly. Based upon what she wrote in her profile and her initial response, you should pick up on what some of her interests are and ask about those. It is important for her to think you respect her on an intellectual and emotional level as a person, so at no point should you talk openly about anything sexual at this point. Here is where you can write a more lengthy response because you have captured her interest enough for her to make that initial connection with you. The same principles apply as with the first message. Humour is good, sex talk bad. Follow these guidelines, have a little patience, and online dating success will be yours. A good rule of thumb is, don't say anything to a person online that you wouldn't say in person, or that might get you slapped. Just because you're sitting in front of a computer screen does not mean there is not a real person out there who you are communicating with. It is just as real as if you were sitting in the room together talking.
After about half a dozen or so fairly lengthy messages back and forth, she should be feeling comfortable enough to make the next step with you. This is usually talking on the phone. Try to make a set day and time when one of you will call the other so that you will both be expecting it. Talk to her on the phone for a little while first to get comfortable at this next level. Again - ABSOLUTELY NO SEX TALK!!! I cannot stress this enough guys. Don't even hint at it as most of you aren't near clever enough to be able to pull it off and you will just end up creeping her out and lose any chance for a date. Oh and for crying out loud, PLEASE, do not EVER send pictures of your wang!
Talk to her like she's a long lost friend who you are catching up with after several years. Women like to be treated as if they are your friend, and will feel that it shows respect towards them and will respect you for it in return. During the conversation, test her resolve by hinting at that you might like to go out sometime. Say something like "so what are you up to later this week?". If she hesitates or says something to shut you down like "oh I'm busy", you've probably blown it, so give up while you are ahead. Tell her that you should probably be going now and to have a nice day. If she isn't totally creeped out by you yet, this will at least demonstrate to her that you aren't a crazy stalker freak, and it will give her time to calm down and think that maybe she overreacted and should give you a second chance. Wait for a few days and if she doesn't send you a message, test the waters by sending her an email asking how it's going. If she doesn't respond, then scratch her off the list of potentials. If she does, then you can try again starting from that point forward and trying again on the phone, but ask first before calling her again. It is always important to keep messaging several different women at once so that when one flakes out on you like this, you have several alternatives and don't have to become desperate or weird and stalker-like. Women like a guy who is aloof enough to not talk to them for a few days and then sends them a message indicating that she hasn't been forgotten.
When you finally do go out, keep it simple. Go out for coffee, a drink, dinner maybe. If you aren't much of a conversationalist try a movie or mini-putt or something distracting so that you won't feel the pressure to keep talking all the time. Once you've been out once or twice, you can step up the romance a notch by going for a walk in the park, or to a scenic spot in the area. It is at this point that you may find my next advice column to be helpful - "How to seduce a woman".
If you liked this advice, check out other advice at TheyFall - the online social networking, dating and advice site.
http://www.TheyFall.com
Reply:I know several success stories. Here's my take on it; people always say it's not safe because you don't know if they are lying or not. Go into a bar. Meet someone there. They are still a stranger are they not? For all you know, they could have a criminal record and past but first impressions aren't always what they appear to be eh?
You take your chances, just like everything else in life. One good thing about it is that you get to know the person for who they are, not what they look like. Personally, I wouldn't use a dating site to find someone, just because I believe what you've been out there searching for is in your hands so to speak. Just wait and the right person will come along by chance. Do not give out any personal information until you have talked to the person for at least a while.
Most importantly, be REAL. If you don't make $100 000 a year, don't say you do. It's just like any relationship; who wants to start one off, lying?
Personally, I met a guy online just over 2 years ago now. He was a friend of a friend, and just so happened to IM me to wish me a happy birthday at the time. He's become one of my best friends and we talk every single day (both of us have mics so we use that instead of the phone). He happens to live only 1 hour away. I personally can't do long distance dating just because I need to physically be around the person otherwise I feel as if something is missing. That said, in the future, I would love to pursue something.
My point is, those who knock down others for meeting people online, they need to try it first then talk. Can't hate something you've never tried yourself.
Online dating?
it's the same as in real life...
The people are the same as in real life. You have to be careful about who you date in real life, too. And you will have the same success as you are having in real life. It's the same.
Reply:Ive been married for 3 years and I have two kids with an amazing, funny, sexy woman....yup met her on hot or not....of all the sites in the world.....I was 23 when I met her. Dont rely on it as your only source but dont cut it off completely
Reply:I've dated several guys I met online and I've never had any problems with anyone I've met. I was just careful about getting to know them via email and phone prior to agreeing to meet in person.
Reply:Mmmm it depends.. just try it!! Be honest ... I know some marriages' stories.. that started this way. I think we must take advantage of technology we have nowdays ..It´s a great mean of communication.. just don´t idealize the person ..try to chat online with her/his first ... in order to meet each other.
Good luck... but be careful... maybe you may find the love of your life ....
Reply:I think it's great if you approach it with care and are open minded. Be willing to accept the fact that the people you meet may not be Prince Charming off the bat.
My friend is currently in a relationship with a guy she met on Match.com and they've been having a great time. They've been together for almost a year. She's in her mid 30s and divorced, so it's kind of hard for her to meet people (we're in a small town and there aren't many fun places to out to). She's very happy!
I met my fiance online in a video game. We've been dating for 2 years. It's not a dating site, but hey... it just shows that people do have success by meeting people online.
Reply:Dangerous
Reply:I meet my boyfriend online so I guess it works. It wasnt on a dating site though. It was more like a friend site. and I wasnt looking to find someone but hey I did. Our relationship is okay. It has it's ups and downs like any other relationship but I cant complain.
Reply:My friend Johnson has got his lover at a dating site called millionairecupid.com. Seems it's quite a nice dating site.
Reply:the on-line dating stuff it is not seem to work out!
Reply:Hi I meet my 2 years ago on line. I am from the Uk she is from China. we are as happy as day 1, our first baby is due in just over a week,/
online dating worked for me, but like life we are all different, so try it..
I have started my little site, Try
http://onlytruelove.com
easy to join and FREE
Reply:ehhh. if you are going to do it, make sure u talk to the guy on the phone, and the first time you see him in person, bring friends. you never know who is on the computer at the other end. most of the time it is the good, sweet guy u think you are talking to but you just have to be careful
Reply:How can men succeed on dating sites?
Copyright (c) 2007 Drew Mcpherson
First you have to have a reasonable profile. Profiles are only of moderate importance, but they must be truthful. No uploading phony pictures, and no filling out fake personal details, like height, marital status, etc. Try to put something funny into you profile. People love to laugh, and if they are laughing at you, they might be loving you in the near future. Maybe tell a funny story about dating, or about a hobby or interest of yours. Avoid the tired old stereotypes of putting things like "not into head games", or "looking for someone honest". 75% of all profiles on the internet have these phrases in them and it becomes very booooring very fast. Make up something creative and unique that inspires an emotional reaction, like laughter, and it will stand out amongst the crowd. If you succeed in triggering someone's emotions right off the bat, you will get noticed.
Perhaps the most difficult part is getting that initial response. It is important to hedge your bet by sending out plenty of messages, but don't spread yourself too thin. It is important to put something meaningful and personal in the message you are sending. Form letters are a big turn-off. Try saying something in response to one of the comments in her profile, but don't waste too much time writing long winded messages on first contact. Also, don't waste your time reading her whole profile. Skim it quickly, in just a few seconds, and pick out anything that obviously stands out to work with in your initial message. Ideally, the shorter the initial message the better, but make sure whatever you write is intriguing enough that she will want to hear more. Messages like "hi, how's it going?" sometimes work, but if you say something more to the effect of "your picture reminds me of olden days, do you like dancing by any chance?" is way better. The best initial message is one which refers to something she specifically mentions in her profile. For instance, if she talks about liking dogs, ask her what her favourite kind of dog is. Or if she says she likes camping, say something like "you should hear about this one time I was camping and I forgot the tent!" If you put in a reference that alludes to a longer, more interesting story that will get her interested and wanting to read more. This is much like how newspaper journalists write a "hook" in the first couple sentences of a story. Make sure that whatever you write is truthful. Liars are always found out sooner or later and that will be the end of you right then and there. Also, if you can throw in a question, which will give her an obvious starting point for a reply, so much the better. Some women are stupid and uncreative and can't figure out how to respond to open-ended messages. Always provide some direction for a response. Sending messages without a leading question will definitely lower your conversion rate.
The next step is to get a witty banter going. After her first reply you should read her profile more thoroughly. Based upon what she wrote in her profile and her initial response, you should pick up on what some of her interests are and ask about those. It is important for her to think you respect her on an intellectual and emotional level as a person, so at no point should you talk openly about anything sexual at this point. Here is where you can write a more lengthy response because you have captured her interest enough for her to make that initial connection with you. The same principles apply as with the first message. Humour is good, sex talk bad. Follow these guidelines, have a little patience, and online dating success will be yours. A good rule of thumb is, don't say anything to a person online that you wouldn't say in person, or that might get you slapped. Just because you're sitting in front of a computer screen does not mean there is not a real person out there who you are communicating with. It is just as real as if you were sitting in the room together talking.
After about half a dozen or so fairly lengthy messages back and forth, she should be feeling comfortable enough to make the next step with you. This is usually talking on the phone. Try to make a set day and time when one of you will call the other so that you will both be expecting it. Talk to her on the phone for a little while first to get comfortable at this next level. Again - ABSOLUTELY NO SEX TALK!!! I cannot stress this enough guys. Don't even hint at it as most of you aren't near clever enough to be able to pull it off and you will just end up creeping her out and lose any chance for a date. Oh and for crying out loud, PLEASE, do not EVER send pictures of your wang!
Talk to her like she's a long lost friend who you are catching up with after several years. Women like to be treated as if they are your friend, and will feel that it shows respect towards them and will respect you for it in return. During the conversation, test her resolve by hinting at that you might like to go out sometime. Say something like "so what are you up to later this week?". If she hesitates or says something to shut you down like "oh I'm busy", you've probably blown it, so give up while you are ahead. Tell her that you should probably be going now and to have a nice day. If she isn't totally creeped out by you yet, this will at least demonstrate to her that you aren't a crazy stalker freak, and it will give her time to calm down and think that maybe she overreacted and should give you a second chance. Wait for a few days and if she doesn't send you a message, test the waters by sending her an email asking how it's going. If she doesn't respond, then scratch her off the list of potentials. If she does, then you can try again starting from that point forward and trying again on the phone, but ask first before calling her again. It is always important to keep messaging several different women at once so that when one flakes out on you like this, you have several alternatives and don't have to become desperate or weird and stalker-like. Women like a guy who is aloof enough to not talk to them for a few days and then sends them a message indicating that she hasn't been forgotten.
When you finally do go out, keep it simple. Go out for coffee, a drink, dinner maybe. If you aren't much of a conversationalist try a movie or mini-putt or something distracting so that you won't feel the pressure to keep talking all the time. Once you've been out once or twice, you can step up the romance a notch by going for a walk in the park, or to a scenic spot in the area. It is at this point that you may find my next advice column to be helpful - "How to seduce a woman".
If you liked this advice, check out other advice at TheyFall - the online social networking, dating and advice site.
http://www.TheyFall.com
Reply:I know several success stories. Here's my take on it; people always say it's not safe because you don't know if they are lying or not. Go into a bar. Meet someone there. They are still a stranger are they not? For all you know, they could have a criminal record and past but first impressions aren't always what they appear to be eh?
You take your chances, just like everything else in life. One good thing about it is that you get to know the person for who they are, not what they look like. Personally, I wouldn't use a dating site to find someone, just because I believe what you've been out there searching for is in your hands so to speak. Just wait and the right person will come along by chance. Do not give out any personal information until you have talked to the person for at least a while.
Most importantly, be REAL. If you don't make $100 000 a year, don't say you do. It's just like any relationship; who wants to start one off, lying?
Personally, I met a guy online just over 2 years ago now. He was a friend of a friend, and just so happened to IM me to wish me a happy birthday at the time. He's become one of my best friends and we talk every single day (both of us have mics so we use that instead of the phone). He happens to live only 1 hour away. I personally can't do long distance dating just because I need to physically be around the person otherwise I feel as if something is missing. That said, in the future, I would love to pursue something.
My point is, those who knock down others for meeting people online, they need to try it first then talk. Can't hate something you've never tried yourself.
Online dating?
is there any good FREE online friend/relationship websites to meet ppl in Dublin?
Online dating?
Try irelandcalls.com or boards.ie. Hail to a fellow Dublin man!
Reply:Try http://www.bestsingle.com Report It
Reply:yer yer yer!!!!
loads, type it into google or these are just a few i know off the top of my head:
*myspace
*tagged
*bebo
*go onto msn - you will find people on there, friends of friends
*faceparty
I cant really think of anymore sorry, but these are all free and ive use most of them or heard they are really good!
Good luck on meeting new people x x
Reply:www.myspace.com
Reply:I dont know, check them out,, Cupid.com, match.com, eharmony.com
Reply:Well, I haven't done any checking to see if they have their services set up in Dublin, but it wouldn't hurt for you to check out since their basic membership on their site is free...
Reply:hmm...lol..well my dad was on these sites after he and my mom broke up and at least i think they are free....but here they are... Good Luck!
Reply:How about an Older Woman? Fancy being a Toyboy?
Go to http://www.toyboys-r-us.co.uk
Maybe you will find 'who' %26amp; 'what' you are looking for!
Reply:email me at armyguard navy@yahoo.com
Reply:Well there are several online dating websites available.
You can try:
*www.finditireland.com/links/onlinedat...
Free UK Christian dating agency service. Online chat website and singles network for Christian personals, marriage, catholic dates, Ireland friends and ...
*www.trustcupid.com/
*match.com
*mate1.com
You can go to google and type in on the search bar Online dating in Ireland
Hope this help
Online dating?
Try irelandcalls.com or boards.ie. Hail to a fellow Dublin man!
Reply:Try http://www.bestsingle.com Report It
Reply:yer yer yer!!!!
loads, type it into google or these are just a few i know off the top of my head:
*myspace
*tagged
*bebo
*go onto msn - you will find people on there, friends of friends
*faceparty
I cant really think of anymore sorry, but these are all free and ive use most of them or heard they are really good!
Good luck on meeting new people x x
Reply:www.myspace.com
Reply:I dont know, check them out,, Cupid.com, match.com, eharmony.com
Reply:Well, I haven't done any checking to see if they have their services set up in Dublin, but it wouldn't hurt for you to check out since their basic membership on their site is free...
Reply:hmm...lol..well my dad was on these sites after he and my mom broke up and at least i think they are free....but here they are... Good Luck!
Reply:How about an Older Woman? Fancy being a Toyboy?
Go to http://www.toyboys-r-us.co.uk
Maybe you will find 'who' %26amp; 'what' you are looking for!
Reply:email me at armyguard navy@yahoo.com
Reply:Well there are several online dating websites available.
You can try:
*www.finditireland.com/links/onlinedat...
Free UK Christian dating agency service. Online chat website and singles network for Christian personals, marriage, catholic dates, Ireland friends and ...
*www.trustcupid.com/
*match.com
*mate1.com
You can go to google and type in on the search bar Online dating in Ireland
Hope this help
Online Dating?
I met this guy online who I never actually met in person but I love his personality because he's cocky is this bad????? Please help
Online Dating?
many people you meet on-line are actually incline to say and do more then they would ever consider in person. Another question like this was posted, it was suggested, ask to see him on cam along with a mic. If he is full of excuses have him take a photo with a news paper showing a current date and current world affairs. I suggest if you have yahoo chat ask him to get a mic and speak directly into it. Another good area is to find a phone get the number of this way you do not disclose any public information. Sorry hun 99% of these people turn out not to be who thay say they are. I"d rather stick with the people I can each day and learn about from others. Meeting on line is just not safe anymore. If his cockyness distress you that much lose him find a more honest and stable guy!! As many pointed out never met anyone but in public places and bring as many friends as you can. If he wants to call you find a phone phone get the number have him call you there. This your personal imformation does just that remain privative
Reply:online dating....pointless....its all just words...and they could all be fake....heres an idea...GO OUT INTO THE WORLD AND MEET REAL LIVE PEOPLE!!!!!
Reply:Online is one thing,meeting face to face is another. Its never bad to like someone online but they may not be the same person in real life.
Reply:There's nothing wrong about making a friend online. Just watch out though, there are bad people out there.
Online Dating?
many people you meet on-line are actually incline to say and do more then they would ever consider in person. Another question like this was posted, it was suggested, ask to see him on cam along with a mic. If he is full of excuses have him take a photo with a news paper showing a current date and current world affairs. I suggest if you have yahoo chat ask him to get a mic and speak directly into it. Another good area is to find a phone get the number of this way you do not disclose any public information. Sorry hun 99% of these people turn out not to be who thay say they are. I"d rather stick with the people I can each day and learn about from others. Meeting on line is just not safe anymore. If his cockyness distress you that much lose him find a more honest and stable guy!! As many pointed out never met anyone but in public places and bring as many friends as you can. If he wants to call you find a phone phone get the number have him call you there. This your personal imformation does just that remain privative
Reply:online dating....pointless....its all just words...and they could all be fake....heres an idea...GO OUT INTO THE WORLD AND MEET REAL LIVE PEOPLE!!!!!
Reply:Online is one thing,meeting face to face is another. Its never bad to like someone online but they may not be the same person in real life.
Reply:There's nothing wrong about making a friend online. Just watch out though, there are bad people out there.
Online dating?
does anyone know of any free websites where i can meet people online. I tried friendster but I don't like it.
Online dating?
Someone told me about a cite called "Plentyoffish.com", he said that he met his girlfriend on there. Good luck.... And I wiped Seth out for ya....... Wink......
Reply:http://www.studentsoftheworld.info
Reply:bollywood chat room.....but lots and lots of ehhheeemmmm but i bet you will like it. Just typr join bollywood chat room
Reply:espin the bottle, myspace there r alot of websites but nothing is as good as meeting someone in real. go to malls and places like that, its croweded with people all ages.
Reply:i know a lot of people don't like myspace, but that's where i met my fiance. it's also where i met the guy who won't stop txt messaging me on the phone and bothers me all the time. you just have to be careful.
Reply:You could try either FaithBase, christian dating, no credit card ever required:
http://www.free-samples-offers.com/faith...
or World Friends which is also free:
http://www.thefreebiesblog.com/2007/09/0...
Reply:Match .com u can chk it out for free and have them contact u @ your own personal e-mail address just be careful about giving out to much info until u feel comfortable
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Online dating?
Someone told me about a cite called "Plentyoffish.com", he said that he met his girlfriend on there. Good luck.... And I wiped Seth out for ya....... Wink......
Reply:http://www.studentsoftheworld.info
Reply:bollywood chat room.....but lots and lots of ehhheeemmmm but i bet you will like it. Just typr join bollywood chat room
Reply:espin the bottle, myspace there r alot of websites but nothing is as good as meeting someone in real. go to malls and places like that, its croweded with people all ages.
Reply:i know a lot of people don't like myspace, but that's where i met my fiance. it's also where i met the guy who won't stop txt messaging me on the phone and bothers me all the time. you just have to be careful.
Reply:You could try either FaithBase, christian dating, no credit card ever required:
http://www.free-samples-offers.com/faith...
or World Friends which is also free:
http://www.thefreebiesblog.com/2007/09/0...
Reply:Match .com u can chk it out for free and have them contact u @ your own personal e-mail address just be careful about giving out to much info until u feel comfortable
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Online Dating?
If i wanted to meet a nice person, would this be a good way? i have always thought that it never works. has anyone here meet someone online and become good friends with them? Or should i stick with the normal ways of meeting people?
Online Dating?
yeah but not here its a place like second life its pretty cool http://vside.com download it and make an account if u ever see a user named usaperson dont be afraid to say hello :)
Reply:Yes it is another way of meeting the right one as long as you remember you are going to come across a few that you won't be suited to. Everyone seems to judge by the first 2 or 3 people they meet and then come out and say online dating is no good.
I met my partner on Lava life and I am now in a defacto relationship and we have a brand new 3 bedroom home with office. I my has totally changed for the better and we even have a yacht. So don't be too quick to judge online dating and give it a fair chance.
Reply:yes i have used online dating and met ladies that have become friends ---- i have met a lady that i want to spend the rest of my life with and without the internet we would never even have known we existed --- she is about 20,000 km away but we will finally meet soon and see where our journey goes --- i am also a lot older than most people here out of a failed 30 year marriage
Reply:no no no bad idea..................is he hitting on you?
Reply:The internet is a good way to make friends, but a lousy way to get dates. :)
Reply:I met my ex on-line. We were together for 6 years and have 2 beautiful girls together. Our decision to break up was mutual and we are still good friends today. My current boyfriend, I also met on-line.
So, its possible to meet someone on-line and have a long term, healthy relationship. It's what you make of it.
However, you still have to be careful of the potential psychos that are out there.
Online Dating?
yeah but not here its a place like second life its pretty cool http://vside.com download it and make an account if u ever see a user named usaperson dont be afraid to say hello :)
Reply:Yes it is another way of meeting the right one as long as you remember you are going to come across a few that you won't be suited to. Everyone seems to judge by the first 2 or 3 people they meet and then come out and say online dating is no good.
I met my partner on Lava life and I am now in a defacto relationship and we have a brand new 3 bedroom home with office. I my has totally changed for the better and we even have a yacht. So don't be too quick to judge online dating and give it a fair chance.
Reply:yes i have used online dating and met ladies that have become friends ---- i have met a lady that i want to spend the rest of my life with and without the internet we would never even have known we existed --- she is about 20,000 km away but we will finally meet soon and see where our journey goes --- i am also a lot older than most people here out of a failed 30 year marriage
Reply:no no no bad idea..................is he hitting on you?
Reply:The internet is a good way to make friends, but a lousy way to get dates. :)
Reply:I met my ex on-line. We were together for 6 years and have 2 beautiful girls together. Our decision to break up was mutual and we are still good friends today. My current boyfriend, I also met on-line.
So, its possible to meet someone on-line and have a long term, healthy relationship. It's what you make of it.
However, you still have to be careful of the potential psychos that are out there.
Online dating?
Has anyone on here ever met anyone online or on a phone chat line? I don't really think those things work but they are so many out there so they must be doing something. I am just too paranoid to even try but i'm curious as too if anyone else has and what was the outcome.
Online dating?
if i were you i would stick to the real life dating. Whatever you do , dont do phone chat crap. As for online dating, be cautious but i really think its too much trouble for its own good. You can give a try but i still think the best way to go about it is to meet people the regular way.
Reply:I met my boyfriend for 6 months now online. So far so good. He's real nice to me. You just have to be careful when you are out there looking. The one with fancy profiles and cute pictures may not be good. You should be able to tell what kind of people they are by IM conversation. I didn't plan on meeting someone there at the first place probably that's why i could able to look at things more clearly. good luck
Reply:the excitement is awesome when u really like the person,just be careful.i knew someone who got engaged through chat,they've been together for 3 years now and still doing great,and i know someone who got cheated on her chatmate too.Goodluck! it need lots of hardwork.
Reply:I did it twice.....................and it didnt worked out. .....they lied to much......................but u have to try.....................mabye you have luck and find the right person there................
Reply:Did it... She lied about her age as soon as i started to fall in love.
Reply:I met a guy online. We dated two and a half years.
Online dating?
if i were you i would stick to the real life dating. Whatever you do , dont do phone chat crap. As for online dating, be cautious but i really think its too much trouble for its own good. You can give a try but i still think the best way to go about it is to meet people the regular way.
Reply:I met my boyfriend for 6 months now online. So far so good. He's real nice to me. You just have to be careful when you are out there looking. The one with fancy profiles and cute pictures may not be good. You should be able to tell what kind of people they are by IM conversation. I didn't plan on meeting someone there at the first place probably that's why i could able to look at things more clearly. good luck
Reply:the excitement is awesome when u really like the person,just be careful.i knew someone who got engaged through chat,they've been together for 3 years now and still doing great,and i know someone who got cheated on her chatmate too.Goodluck! it need lots of hardwork.
Reply:I did it twice.....................and it didnt worked out. .....they lied to much......................but u have to try.....................mabye you have luck and find the right person there................
Reply:Did it... She lied about her age as soon as i started to fall in love.
Reply:I met a guy online. We dated two and a half years.
Online dating?
Ladies, would you go out with a guy whom you've met online? If so, how long would you wait until you would agree to go out. At what point would you feel you've known about that guy in order to go out with him.
Guys, same questions as above (I mean with a girl).
Online dating?
I would and have. However you must follow simply basic rules
1) Meet in a public place
2) Drive your own vehicle
3)Informed family members friend where you are meeting and with whom.
4)Have a great time.
P.S. We met two weeks after chatting and talking on the phone.
Reply:No you don't date online.
Reply:i haven't and never will
Reply:i would but i'd wanna meet that peson sooner or later! IM me at shayla7e *wink*
Reply:Sure ... why not? Sites like eHarmony and match.com are how almost everyone gets together these days.
Reply:hmm..id have to talk to him for a really long time, because being on the computer is nothing like being in person. People can be very fake on the computer and you could never know how/who the person really is...but yeah so it all depends
Reply:i once asked some1 i met online to hang out - not on a date cause he was just a friend but if i'd be romanticly interested in a guy online i guess i'd ask him out
as for when - its very subjective i guess whenever u feel like it...
good luck
Reply:I don't mind online dating. =]
My rules are simple. Don't freaking lie. Don't freaking act like someone your not. And don't freaking be a douche bag and totally pedofiley molest me. =D
Reply:Sure wouldnt mind to try. How old are you?
Reply:It would depend on where I met him. How much contact do you have with him? Go when you feel comfortable. Meet him in a very public place the first time and let someone else know where you are. Trust your instincts once you meet him in person.
Reply:No because body language and voice inflection tell you alot about a person. I would stick to in person or talking on the phone. You can't always get the whole person online or chatting.
Guys, same questions as above (I mean with a girl).
Online dating?
I would and have. However you must follow simply basic rules
1) Meet in a public place
2) Drive your own vehicle
3)Informed family members friend where you are meeting and with whom.
4)Have a great time.
P.S. We met two weeks after chatting and talking on the phone.
Reply:No you don't date online.
Reply:i haven't and never will
Reply:i would but i'd wanna meet that peson sooner or later! IM me at shayla7e *wink*
Reply:Sure ... why not? Sites like eHarmony and match.com are how almost everyone gets together these days.
Reply:hmm..id have to talk to him for a really long time, because being on the computer is nothing like being in person. People can be very fake on the computer and you could never know how/who the person really is...but yeah so it all depends
Reply:i once asked some1 i met online to hang out - not on a date cause he was just a friend but if i'd be romanticly interested in a guy online i guess i'd ask him out
as for when - its very subjective i guess whenever u feel like it...
good luck
Reply:I don't mind online dating. =]
My rules are simple. Don't freaking lie. Don't freaking act like someone your not. And don't freaking be a douche bag and totally pedofiley molest me. =D
Reply:Sure wouldnt mind to try. How old are you?
Reply:It would depend on where I met him. How much contact do you have with him? Go when you feel comfortable. Meet him in a very public place the first time and let someone else know where you are. Trust your instincts once you meet him in person.
Reply:No because body language and voice inflection tell you alot about a person. I would stick to in person or talking on the phone. You can't always get the whole person online or chatting.
Online Dating?
Has anyone ever met and sustained a romantic relationship through one of those dating/meet people sites? Is it generally an accepted thing these days or do people think it's weird?
Online Dating?
Perfectly acceptable. Remember, the internet is nothing more than a *venue* for meeting people. Just like any other place where you'd meet someone. Just like anywhere else, though, it's wise to do your homework on any potential mates.
And people you meet anywhere other than the internet can also claim to be something they're not. That's not exclusive to the internet.
Reply:i have yet to meet my lady but yes i have used the sites and they can work
Reply:i met my husband online and we have been married 6 years
Reply:I met my wife on Match.com. I liked that we were able to pick the criteria in a mate we were looking for. We both had a child from previous marriages and were both looking for someone with a child so we could gauge what type of parent they were. We were both looking for someone who didn't drink or smoke too, so it was very easy to weed people out. We just had our first baby together 5 months ago. My wife is the love of my live and I feel like the luckiest guy in the world to have found her. She is an excellent mother to my son who we have full-time and you would never know that my step-daughter and son weren't real siblings. My sister-in-law also found her true love over the internet too. I don't understand why people think you've less likely to be lied to in person than over the net. Just make sure you get a good picture of them and like them for who they are.
A few years ago people thought online dating was weird, but now I find most people are really suprised and encouraged by it.
Reply:it's weird
but some times success
Reply:there are alot of fake and weird people on the online dating, I know personally,, but ask me after Sunday because I have another Date from online, and hoping this one is true, and no it seems to be the normal thing these days with people on the go so much,, I know I cant get around and meet people like I did in my 20's
Reply:The negative aspect to that is that when you are online you are whoever you WANT to be and no necessarily who you really are.. you could be 6'2" and 200 lbs when at home and typing you are really 5'6" and 210 lbs....you could be saying you are an administrator or business owner and really unemployed and an alcoholic.....do you see where I'm going with this....
Reply:Although I did not do this myself, I know of several happily married couples who met each other over an online dating service. Most of them found compatible partners when they specified certain qualities or characteristics they sought in a mate. The more specifics they requested, the more compatible partner was found.
Reply:yes online dating me too i have ask this similar question because it get weird thing for i still have a scetical mind toward it all.
i alway ask this questions how can someone that i did not see (if the pic that he/she send to me is through of him/her) say to me that he/she love me. just imagine that
but sometime it is through if those that happened to are sincered and honest about themself to each other they can truelly meet to love each other
Reply:ONLINE DATING the two words that shiver up my spine every time i hear it online dating is just weird dont ever trust any guy online that likes you he could be a rapist 10 or more years older than you online dating i know i said not to trust any one online but trust me when i say this PLEASE DONT ONLINE DATE they lie about there age you cant even tell if there f or m PLEASE!!!!
Reply:It can happen, but you must BE CAREFUL. Anyone can say anything or send a pic of anyone and you don't know for sure if it's them or not unless you meet. IF you ever go to meet someone you met online, meet them at a mall or some other VERY busy place and don't get in the car with them the first time. Have lunch and set another date. ALSO, my sister used to meet guys she found online and she always let me know where she was going and their screen name and any other info she had just in case she didn't come back.
My brother-in- law met his 2nd wife online.
Reply:IT IS WEIRD AND SICK!!
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Online Dating?
Perfectly acceptable. Remember, the internet is nothing more than a *venue* for meeting people. Just like any other place where you'd meet someone. Just like anywhere else, though, it's wise to do your homework on any potential mates.
And people you meet anywhere other than the internet can also claim to be something they're not. That's not exclusive to the internet.
Reply:i have yet to meet my lady but yes i have used the sites and they can work
Reply:i met my husband online and we have been married 6 years
Reply:I met my wife on Match.com. I liked that we were able to pick the criteria in a mate we were looking for. We both had a child from previous marriages and were both looking for someone with a child so we could gauge what type of parent they were. We were both looking for someone who didn't drink or smoke too, so it was very easy to weed people out. We just had our first baby together 5 months ago. My wife is the love of my live and I feel like the luckiest guy in the world to have found her. She is an excellent mother to my son who we have full-time and you would never know that my step-daughter and son weren't real siblings. My sister-in-law also found her true love over the internet too. I don't understand why people think you've less likely to be lied to in person than over the net. Just make sure you get a good picture of them and like them for who they are.
A few years ago people thought online dating was weird, but now I find most people are really suprised and encouraged by it.
Reply:it's weird
but some times success
Reply:there are alot of fake and weird people on the online dating, I know personally,, but ask me after Sunday because I have another Date from online, and hoping this one is true, and no it seems to be the normal thing these days with people on the go so much,, I know I cant get around and meet people like I did in my 20's
Reply:The negative aspect to that is that when you are online you are whoever you WANT to be and no necessarily who you really are.. you could be 6'2" and 200 lbs when at home and typing you are really 5'6" and 210 lbs....you could be saying you are an administrator or business owner and really unemployed and an alcoholic.....do you see where I'm going with this....
Reply:Although I did not do this myself, I know of several happily married couples who met each other over an online dating service. Most of them found compatible partners when they specified certain qualities or characteristics they sought in a mate. The more specifics they requested, the more compatible partner was found.
Reply:yes online dating me too i have ask this similar question because it get weird thing for i still have a scetical mind toward it all.
i alway ask this questions how can someone that i did not see (if the pic that he/she send to me is through of him/her) say to me that he/she love me. just imagine that
but sometime it is through if those that happened to are sincered and honest about themself to each other they can truelly meet to love each other
Reply:ONLINE DATING the two words that shiver up my spine every time i hear it online dating is just weird dont ever trust any guy online that likes you he could be a rapist 10 or more years older than you online dating i know i said not to trust any one online but trust me when i say this PLEASE DONT ONLINE DATE they lie about there age you cant even tell if there f or m PLEASE!!!!
Reply:It can happen, but you must BE CAREFUL. Anyone can say anything or send a pic of anyone and you don't know for sure if it's them or not unless you meet. IF you ever go to meet someone you met online, meet them at a mall or some other VERY busy place and don't get in the car with them the first time. Have lunch and set another date. ALSO, my sister used to meet guys she found online and she always let me know where she was going and their screen name and any other info she had just in case she didn't come back.
My brother-in- law met his 2nd wife online.
Reply:IT IS WEIRD AND SICK!!
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Online dating!!?
I met this guy online and continuisly talked to him. then i looked him up on myspace and there was one match and he lived in the place he told me and but he was alot older. i confronted him about it twice. he always denied it though. should i say bye or keep chatting him up??
Online dating!!?
wow!
My sister's been through the same things and in the end they really hated eachother!
Reply:not if he doesn't answer the question.Good Luck!
Online dating!!?
wow!
My sister's been through the same things and in the end they really hated eachother!
Reply:not if he doesn't answer the question.Good Luck!
Online dating?
ok so there is this guy i have been talking to online for the past year and we are still talking and we really like each other the only thing is he lives in a different state. he want me to move up there with him but i want to meet him first what do you think about it or what is your experince?
Online dating?
MEEEEET HIMMMM FIRSTTTTT....youd be crazy otherwise....
People can be COMPLETELY different people online and in person.
Reply:MEET HIM FIRST and not just one time, tell him if he realy wants you, he has to spend sometime in your town so you really get to know each other. There are a lot of lies going on in online conversations. Don't trust anyone unless you meet him for a few time. If he make excuses that most likely he will, try to find someone better local
Reply:definitely meet him first....
you might not have the same chemistry in person you do on the phone...
Reply:Have him meet you first is my answer
Reply:Thats weird, he wants you to come and visit him without first meeting in neutral territory.
How do you know if this guy is really being truthful on who he really is...maybe he is a sexual predator going for young girls.
Advise him that you two shoudl meet in a public place that you are familiar with and has security guards, like a mall..so you have the upper hand.
Reply:Make sure you guys exchange many many high resolution pics with digital camera. Full body, head shots, various expressions and poses. That is very Important. That will reduce the risk of unpleasant surprises. Remember that Appearance is a very big part of any human's personality.
My experience is: When we had exchanged Many pics and information like height etc, the real meeting was not much surprise.
But i have had experience where I met girls without seeing their pics or just one pic, and she turned out to be ugly or obese in reality.
But still one year relatinship without ever meeting.. thats too long. better meet him first, before moving there for him.
Reply:Me and my wife had the same experience. So we dated back and forth between our homes and we got married twenty seven months ago and I can say that we are as happy as we have ever been in our entire lives. Good Luck.
Online dating?
MEEEEET HIMMMM FIRSTTTTT....youd be crazy otherwise....
People can be COMPLETELY different people online and in person.
Reply:MEET HIM FIRST and not just one time, tell him if he realy wants you, he has to spend sometime in your town so you really get to know each other. There are a lot of lies going on in online conversations. Don't trust anyone unless you meet him for a few time. If he make excuses that most likely he will, try to find someone better local
Reply:definitely meet him first....
you might not have the same chemistry in person you do on the phone...
Reply:Have him meet you first is my answer
Reply:Thats weird, he wants you to come and visit him without first meeting in neutral territory.
How do you know if this guy is really being truthful on who he really is...maybe he is a sexual predator going for young girls.
Advise him that you two shoudl meet in a public place that you are familiar with and has security guards, like a mall..so you have the upper hand.
Reply:Make sure you guys exchange many many high resolution pics with digital camera. Full body, head shots, various expressions and poses. That is very Important. That will reduce the risk of unpleasant surprises. Remember that Appearance is a very big part of any human's personality.
My experience is: When we had exchanged Many pics and information like height etc, the real meeting was not much surprise.
But i have had experience where I met girls without seeing their pics or just one pic, and she turned out to be ugly or obese in reality.
But still one year relatinship without ever meeting.. thats too long. better meet him first, before moving there for him.
Reply:Me and my wife had the same experience. So we dated back and forth between our homes and we got married twenty seven months ago and I can say that we are as happy as we have ever been in our entire lives. Good Luck.
Online dating?
ok som about a year ago i started talking to this guy online and we hit it off pretty well. i know alot about him and he does me. he is in the marines and i checked it out he really is. at the moment he is over in iraq but when he gets back in a year he wants to meet me. we told each other that we will keep intouch while he is over there so then we will have been talking for 2 years and he said that he wants me to move with him when he gets back too. i told him we need to met first and he is oksy with that.so my question is what do you think about all this?
Online dating?
You know, it's 2008 now, the internet is just another normal way to meet a person just as it is in a bar or anhy other place you get talking to someone.
However, their is the extra caution with the internet simply because a person can hide behind a screen %26amp; put on a facade.
As long as you get to know a person, then it's cool, meeting up with them is good, just do it in a place where it's public to get an idea of the person %26amp; then just go from there.
Talking about moving in is wrong, you need to take one step at a time and see how it goes when you two meet.
Take each day steady %26amp; look after yourself, 9 times out of 10, the persons genuine, it's only one in so many that are wierd freaks on a whole really but that doesn;t mean to say you can be less cautious.
Meeting %26amp; talking to someone online is actually a normal part of society now, many people are now married with kids and whatever else after meeting online %26amp; getting to know each other.
However take one step at a time %26amp; you can't go wrong.
Drop the moving in thing.... thats too far ahead to even think about.
Reply:Sounds like you have a plan. Just meet each other in person and see where it takes you both Just be sure to do it in a public place during the day and take precautions.
Reply:congradulations. I just met a gal in portugal. were not dating, were not even frends. But if things work out I just might post it up out here like you did. Do you feel better.
My thoughts are with you and him in Iroq. I bet yer wantin Clinton for president just so he can come home, huh?
Reply:Exactly what Brian said, "Take it slow." On line or not. ;-)
Reply:Do not just move in with this guy. Meet him at a public place, and make sure other people know where you are. Take it slowly. Meet each other on each other's turfs, etc, before jumping into a living situation.
Reply:take your time over this matter of moving in with him i know you have kept in touch with each other but you need to see first if you really like the guy or not to me he is a bit too quick to ask you to move in there maybe nothing wrong in that but like i wrote take your time
hope everything works out for you good luck
Reply:sounds nice but, remember things will change when you meet so you cant really make plans ... geez , you gota smell each other first, touch , taste, feel each others aura's
Reply:just take it slow...
Online dating?
You know, it's 2008 now, the internet is just another normal way to meet a person just as it is in a bar or anhy other place you get talking to someone.
However, their is the extra caution with the internet simply because a person can hide behind a screen %26amp; put on a facade.
As long as you get to know a person, then it's cool, meeting up with them is good, just do it in a place where it's public to get an idea of the person %26amp; then just go from there.
Talking about moving in is wrong, you need to take one step at a time and see how it goes when you two meet.
Take each day steady %26amp; look after yourself, 9 times out of 10, the persons genuine, it's only one in so many that are wierd freaks on a whole really but that doesn;t mean to say you can be less cautious.
Meeting %26amp; talking to someone online is actually a normal part of society now, many people are now married with kids and whatever else after meeting online %26amp; getting to know each other.
However take one step at a time %26amp; you can't go wrong.
Drop the moving in thing.... thats too far ahead to even think about.
Reply:Sounds like you have a plan. Just meet each other in person and see where it takes you both Just be sure to do it in a public place during the day and take precautions.
Reply:congradulations. I just met a gal in portugal. were not dating, were not even frends. But if things work out I just might post it up out here like you did. Do you feel better.
My thoughts are with you and him in Iroq. I bet yer wantin Clinton for president just so he can come home, huh?
Reply:Exactly what Brian said, "Take it slow." On line or not. ;-)
Reply:Do not just move in with this guy. Meet him at a public place, and make sure other people know where you are. Take it slowly. Meet each other on each other's turfs, etc, before jumping into a living situation.
Reply:take your time over this matter of moving in with him i know you have kept in touch with each other but you need to see first if you really like the guy or not to me he is a bit too quick to ask you to move in there maybe nothing wrong in that but like i wrote take your time
hope everything works out for you good luck
Reply:sounds nice but, remember things will change when you meet so you cant really make plans ... geez , you gota smell each other first, touch , taste, feel each others aura's
Reply:just take it slow...
Online dating?
Is having a boyfriend online better or worse?
Online dating?
Depends on your age and if you experienced dating before. I am still very young but then I feel weird seeing a lot of friends with a bf but I don't have one. But then I feel like I'm not ready to be going out and doing things my friends does with their bf. So I started dating guys online for some experience of dating even though it's different from real life. At least there's someone that loves me that I can love back.
Reply:Same chance of it working as there is in the real world... :D
Reply:worse worse. it's hard b/c you can't hang out or kiss or anything. there are plently of men around you i bet, just keep looking.
Reply:Well i just went through that one it sucks cause i caught him in lie after lie and who knows the weirdos on line these days.
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Online dating?
Depends on your age and if you experienced dating before. I am still very young but then I feel weird seeing a lot of friends with a bf but I don't have one. But then I feel like I'm not ready to be going out and doing things my friends does with their bf. So I started dating guys online for some experience of dating even though it's different from real life. At least there's someone that loves me that I can love back.
Reply:Same chance of it working as there is in the real world... :D
Reply:worse worse. it's hard b/c you can't hang out or kiss or anything. there are plently of men around you i bet, just keep looking.
Reply:Well i just went through that one it sucks cause i caught him in lie after lie and who knows the weirdos on line these days.
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