Thursday, November 19, 2009

Online dating ?

i met a girl online. We talked for a few days and then one night it got a little heavy with sex and she was doing phone sex. Since then she is very sexual with me. She wants to meet me and go at it for a weekend. I met her through Yahoo personnals. Her profile says 22 which is fine. Its just weird that she is wanting to have phone sex all the time. I am not complaining but I figure two things. 1 She is not the person who pictures she put up. 2. She just likes sex a lot and its fun for her to do this with not strings. So what can I do to confirm what she look like and her age. She has only seen a few pictures of me and says I am so hott. Is this normal for a woman to get this turned on by just some guys pictures.

Online dating ?
Everybody is different, sir. Trying to find confirmation about a generalization about what does or does not turn women on is a big mistake. So I would say, yes, it is possible she could become that aroused merely by your image, or perhaps you are overlooking the context of your phone conversations with her as a motive. Maybe she also likes the sound of your voice. One generalization that is supported by research is that women tend to be aroused in "layers" that are emotional, mental and physical all at once. Try not to pigeon-hole her sexual tendencies. You could try directly asking her what it is about you or your profile that turns her on so, I doubt she'd have any good reason to lie to you about it.





And yes, I am female, happily married with children, and I met my husband on an internet dating site. Always be honest about who you are and what you are looking for, and your online dating adventures should prove to be a success.
Reply:I met my fiance online, but we never were into the heavy talk over the phone. She sounds a little needy or you are right on the idea of the pics not being her. Maybe she is a freak and gets off on your voice over the phone, you never know. You should tell her you want to meet her before you all talk sexually on the phone anymore. Then you will know what the deal is with her. But, normally we don't get all that freaked out over seeing a guys picture but all girls are different so it is hard telling.
Reply:I thought I was the only one that had this problem. But hes the one that started it. I'm wondering how normal is he.Theres always a web cam. They are not very expensive. My guy is in another state. I didn't think it was possible to get that turned on. I'm afraid that it wont be as exciting if we actually meet. I'm honest about my my age and appearance. Please let me know how things turn out and I'm open for advice also because I am really smitten.
Reply:I do this all the time. The hottest sex Ive ever had. Go with the flow. I met this guy once who was a fireman, treated me like a hydrant for three days straight.....ah the memories.
Reply:meet her somewhere like a bar, ask what shell be wearing so you can spot her, if you dont like her, then bolt
Reply:I would be careful and leary. This seems to be common in the on-line world. If she is doing this with you this quickly, I'm sure she does this with everyone.
Reply:yu have to be way carefull with online datting stuff the only thing you can do is meet her and hope things work out
Reply:better be careful.. it might be a dude..
Reply:Its normal for Yahoo personals to have loads of fake profiles. thats all I can tell you.
Reply:You either have someone being who they are not the real deal. Fact: 40% of people on dating sites are married.Profile means nothing.Ask "her" for "her" phone number.If she does not give it to leave leave her alone. If she does talk to her. After a weeks or to of "really" knowing her have meet at a very public place with a lot of people. If this goes well try more public places in the future. After about a month and a half If things work out ,gradually do more stuff with her out of public. If she is some crazed sex maniac then you might just have new **** buddy.


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