I'm 15, I have a mutual crush on a guy who is 14. We don't go to the same school and we live too far apart to see each other too often. We met at camp and we've been in contact via email and 1 phone call(interupted, though, so could be said to be two). Should we become online bf %26amp; gf or what?
Online dating?
Yeah, if you actually know the guy, that's perfectly fine! I wouldn't online date someone like if I'd never met them before, but since you know him, then why not? Go for it!
Reply:I met my boyfriend through a friend once, then spoke to him online for another year before I met him again. We weren't boyfriend and girlfriend at the time we met, nor were we for a long time after that.
You're still very young, so you really need to think about it carefully. Long distance is really difficult, you don't have the same kind of interaction. I am older so I am thinking as more of a long term arrangement. But since you're much younger, you have to think of the long term implications.
Plus, once you want to get more serious you will have to wait until...college? Talk to each other more. If you end up falling for him, and he cheats on you. You won't know through seeing them together or word of mouth, because of the distance. And if he feels like being dishonest, he doesn't necessarily have to tell you? Plus he's 14, that's quite young to decide when you want to have a long distance relationship. When he gets older things may change. I dunno, good luck though!
Reply:You are too young to commit yourself to a on-line relationship. on-line people tend to be alot more bold with words and this could lead to problems. You are young and have plenty of time to worry yourself about guys, be on-line friends not bf/gf. And later on when you guys can see one another on a regular chance it then.
Reply:What's the point of not dating locally, so you can have a long distance chat buddy?
You're too young to be dating anyway (16), but when that time comes pick local guys and don't sit at home on the computer for a 'date'.
Reply:i say it's worth a try. i am 'dating' a guy online, he lives on the other side of the country than i do... but it doesn't matter, we're not going to let distance keep us apart. i'm going this summer to meet him for the first time (my family is coming with me) =)
good luck, i hope everything works out for you two! =)
Reply:online/long distance relationships dont work in the long run dont waste your time
Reply:Sure why not. Many relationships are being carried on over the internet.
The internet has opened up a whole new world in the relationship area, etc. It has led to many happy unions, marriages, etc. It is just another way of meeting people, and contrary to what some may say, relationships that blossom on the internet, last just as well as any others.
If you both enjoy this, then why not? Having fun is what life is about. And don't worry about what others say if they diss you. They are just jealous.
And yes, you are plenty old to be dating. Don't listen to the old foggies. Have fun and enjoy life!
Good luck.
Reply:i would go for no...try meeting someone in your area...its better to be able to see the person you like instead of over the phone and e-mail
Reply:Being an online bf/gf will just get your heart broken. Only love irl, you'll be much happier.
Reply:That's sweet. Just be careful.
Reply:If you really like then yeah go for it. People can be themselves online and even though a physical relatinship is misssing, you can still have feelings for each other. Soon you will be able to drive anyway and you can go meet him! Ater two years of online dating when you finally meet again it'll be a dream for you :)
Hope this helps
Reply:they usually don't work out in the long run
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