Thursday, November 19, 2009

Online dating?

ok som about a year ago i started talking to this guy online and we hit it off pretty well. i know alot about him and he does me. he is in the marines and i checked it out he really is. at the moment he is over in iraq but when he gets back in a year he wants to meet me. we told each other that we will keep intouch while he is over there so then we will have been talking for 2 years and he said that he wants me to move with him when he gets back too. i told him we need to met first and he is oksy with that.so my question is what do you think about all this?

Online dating?
You know, it's 2008 now, the internet is just another normal way to meet a person just as it is in a bar or anhy other place you get talking to someone.





However, their is the extra caution with the internet simply because a person can hide behind a screen %26amp; put on a facade.





As long as you get to know a person, then it's cool, meeting up with them is good, just do it in a place where it's public to get an idea of the person %26amp; then just go from there.





Talking about moving in is wrong, you need to take one step at a time and see how it goes when you two meet.





Take each day steady %26amp; look after yourself, 9 times out of 10, the persons genuine, it's only one in so many that are wierd freaks on a whole really but that doesn;t mean to say you can be less cautious.





Meeting %26amp; talking to someone online is actually a normal part of society now, many people are now married with kids and whatever else after meeting online %26amp; getting to know each other.





However take one step at a time %26amp; you can't go wrong.





Drop the moving in thing.... thats too far ahead to even think about.
Reply:Sounds like you have a plan. Just meet each other in person and see where it takes you both Just be sure to do it in a public place during the day and take precautions.
Reply:congradulations. I just met a gal in portugal. were not dating, were not even frends. But if things work out I just might post it up out here like you did. Do you feel better.


My thoughts are with you and him in Iroq. I bet yer wantin Clinton for president just so he can come home, huh?
Reply:Exactly what Brian said, "Take it slow." On line or not. ;-)
Reply:Do not just move in with this guy. Meet him at a public place, and make sure other people know where you are. Take it slowly. Meet each other on each other's turfs, etc, before jumping into a living situation.
Reply:take your time over this matter of moving in with him i know you have kept in touch with each other but you need to see first if you really like the guy or not to me he is a bit too quick to ask you to move in there maybe nothing wrong in that but like i wrote take your time





hope everything works out for you good luck
Reply:sounds nice but, remember things will change when you meet so you cant really make plans ... geez , you gota smell each other first, touch , taste, feel each others aura's
Reply:just take it slow...


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