Thursday, November 19, 2009

Online Dating?

I met a guy online and i'm 19 he's 23. He became my first everything. He's been saying that i'm imature, I don't have a job, and I can't please him sexually. He wanted to see me 1 day last week I told him yes but then started complaining ab my day %26amp; told him it would take 45 min 2 get dressed, he said I changed my mind. I think he's tired of me, but I want to change and still be with him. I went over there 2 x's and he didn't open the door %26amp; he was there. I left him a letter and came back and had 2 yell through the door 4 him 2 let me in. He said it was 3 things he wanted sexually, I did 1 willingly and the other I told him to stop. I told him I had been hanging with another guy over the weekend and he threw me out. I came back that night and had 2 argue 4 him 2 let me in. He said I was crazy among other things %26amp; I told him I had 2 take my bro home we just came frm the studio he got mad %26amp; said I don;t want peep know where I live, Good Bye. That was 2 days ago should I go there 2night.

Online Dating?
no dont just leave it for awhile and talk to other guys he aint worth it
Reply:Dear..you should give your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ. The way you are headed right now..is a disastrous life of big disappointments. If you give your life to Christ, His Holy Spirit will direct your heart every day on what you should do..including any dating. Right now your life is focused on things that will never satisfy you.. and you are hanging around people that will destroy your life. God bless !
Reply:NO. He sounds like he's a lot more work than he's worth. What's with having to yell through the door for him to let you in? If anyone's immature, it's him. He's playing games, and he likes you to chase him. Let him go. Find a man who isn't so into drama, or so into himself. Remember, it's about YOU too.
Reply:Uhhh I'm confused. Here, let me edit your question so I can process it...





Okay so I met a guy online. He's 23 years old, and I'm 19. He became my fist everything(???). But lately, he's been saying that I'm immature, I don't have a job, and I can't please him sexually.


He wanted to see me in person (for the first time???) one day last week. I said that sounded good, but then I started complaining about my day and I told him it would take me 45 minutes to get dressed. That's when he changed his mind.


I think he's tired of me, but I want to change so I can still be with him. I went to his house twice, but he never opened the door, even though he was there. I left him a note on his door. Later, I went back to his house, having to yell through the door for him to finally let me in his house.


He said there were three things he wanted sexually. I did one of the things willingly, but I told him I would not do the other two. Then I told him that I had been out with another guy over the weekend... he threw me out.


That night I came back and argued with him before he finally let me inside his house. He said I was crazy (among other things) and so I told him I had to leave... a mere excuse (right?). So I left and that's that.


This was two days ago... should I go there tonight??





My advice.... no. He sounds like he only wants you for sexual stuff. I mean, you don't even know him that well, he's some guy you met online. Leave him and go hang out with that other guy again. Really, I don't want you get hurt... leave him! Hope everything works out.


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