Thursday, November 19, 2009

Online dating....?

i have cerebral palsy. i walk with a slight limp, otherwise you wouldn't be able to tell. i have been connecting with this girl online pretty well. i havent told her that i have cerebral palsy and eventually i want to meet her. it's only been a few days. when should i tell her? i dont want to wait until i finally do meet her to tell her.

Online dating....?
I find it best to just be honest up front. This way you will find out if what you have is real or just a mere fantasy. If she shuns you due to having CP then you would be better off telling her in the beginning versus finding out later after you have grown more attached.
Reply:Tell her whenever YOU feel comfortable doing so. If she really likes you it should not be a problem for her. I'm not saying keep it a secret forever but you said it has only been a couple of days, it would be understandable if you were not quite ready to spit out that fact about yourself.
Reply:Be honest as soon as you can! The longer you wait the worse it could be. If you wait till you meet in person she may decide you aren't the one for her for not telling her right off. She would wonder what else you are keeping from her and if you'll do it on a regular basis.
Reply:Let her know right away this way you are up front and honest, hey if she really likes you it may not matter to her if you have a disability. Good luck.


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