Monday, November 16, 2009

Online dating?

I'm trying online dating and I've been having a little bit of a hard time to get women to respond to any of my messages. What do you think is the best thing to say to a woman when you make the initial contact?

Online dating?
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Reply:You are not on the right dating site. Try millionairecupid.com. My friend told me he can get 10+ new contacts every day. Of course, he has got her and left that site.
Reply:my boyfriend's sister tried online dating and u usually never end up seeing each other. just wanna let u no
Reply:The male-female ratio on dating websites is heavily skewed against the man. The average woman puts an ad up and gets like 200 responses. The average man's inbox grows cobwebs.





Don't beat yourself up over it, but you can find better uses for your money.
Reply:umm dude go get a life and get a real girlfriend which you can actually see in real life.
Reply:no a good idea, skip that...
Reply:give us an example of what you do say and maybe we can figure out where you are going wrong..
Reply:Here is some advice from a woman who found her man through an online dating site. Yep, me and my fiance met through an online dating site :). And it didn't happen instantly, so I've been on the other side of the emails you're sending and can definitely give you some advice. Here is one of the biggest pieces of advice: DON'T send the same letter that you just copy and paste over and over to different women. We can spot that a mile away, and will give your email the same time and attention it took you to copy and paste it. If you're actually reading through the women's profiles before emailing them, then refer to something in their profile. This lets the woman know you took enough time to actually read what she wrote, and you're interested in HER, which is huge! So if she writes about being a food critic, and mentions a love of fine wine (which you are) then mention in your email you're also a lover of fine wine. Perhaps even mention a favorite wine bar, and ask if she's been there and enjoys it? Ok, so maybe wine isn't the best example for a guy, but hopefully you see where I'm going with this. Write something that is specific to her. And be honest. Don't write you also enjoy a love of sailing when you've never been out on the water before. Honestly mention what you liked about her profile, you seem to have that in common, and you would like to know more about her. If she is interested, she'll get back to you. Unfortunately, in today's world of instant technology we expect that if someone is interested in us the second we send an email they'll send one back. There is no way to tell when the person you're interested in on the other side of the computer is out of town, swamped with emails, swamped with real life and not able to sit down in front of the computer and the dating site, etc. Send out the email, and then just keep looking. The right people will get back in touch at the right times.





Hope some of this helps! Good luck!

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