Online dating...??

Do u believe long distance relationships work? Why?

Online dating...??
No they don't.


I've been in them. Girls/Boys get bored of you and they will go off and get attracted to other people.


It happens all the time.
Reply:Heck no. I've been through a few myself. They all turned out to be psycho and were cheating on me all along. I'm not saying that will happen to you, but I have never had good experiences with online dating and neither have any of my friends who have tried it.


But I think if you are with someone IRL and then go long distance, it might be a different story.
Reply:No. You need to spend time with someone to really get to know them. A long-distance relationship is hard enough when you already know a person.
Reply:They only work if there is an end to the distance in the future. If you communicate everyday and are understanding of the emotional ups and downs the distance might bring, it can work. You also have to be able to trust each other. I don't think you can fully build a relationship with someone, however, unless you are in close proximity. There is a different kind of chemistry when you can physically touch the person, or see expressions on their face, or have face to face conversation. It is fun to experiment with it, especially if it is someone you met on-line. Be careful and take the time to get to know them. Don't make any drastic decisions too soon.
Reply:um no
Reply:hey!


i have been in several long distance relationships and none have worked out, for any extended period of time. i think the distance make it easier to find someone new...





just my thoughts!





karry
Reply:no i do not. well first off.. you dont know what the other person is doing at any moment, you dont know if that person is lying their heads off.. and most importantly..





why would you want someone that you can't see each day, and hold in your arms?
Reply:They will work for a while--when there is a light at the end of the tunnel (like there is or will be a committment there). But I don't think they can work indefinitely. I once heard it said that close relationships should be in the same zip code if they are to last any length of time.





ps--how long away are you talking about? My husband and I made it for 2 years before marriage, but he was only about 60 miles away from me. How often would you be able to see each other--each week (should be OK). Once a month? (depends on the people). Less than that, probably no chance of a lasting relationship.
Reply:No.


Deff. not.


You can't see the person and you can't hug them or doing anything.


Not saying a realationship is all about the physical stuff, but it is a big part of it.


To me, long distance realtionships would never work.
Reply:i had a long distance relationship with my ex





i dont think they work because you have to have MAJOR trust in your partner!! otherwise your mind will be like


...wonder if shes with someone and i dont know....


which in my case SHE WAS :@ nevermind got a new gal now :D





but as for the actual relationship it was horrible cudn't hug or kiss her when i felt down and talking on the phone is really frustrating!!





so no i say they dont unless you are with an absolute saint!
Reply:maybe because their...likes and dislikes match?
Reply:sorry, but the answer I have 4 you is going to have to be no. I went through a LDR when I graduated from high school, and I have to tell you that I thought it was going to work. But in reality, unfortunately, it sucked. we wound out seeing other people within 3 months. I sucks because I was in love with my high school sweetheart, and I thought I we were going to get married. Well it didn't turn out that way, in fact she wanted to date other people and broke it off with me. I wound up doing the same thing, but didn't have the same respect for girls. I just wanted to use them for my advantage to forget about my high school sweetheart.
Reply:it should be outlawed as well as online dating
Reply:YES!!!! because I have one and it's great!
Reply:Yes I do. It can be a great place to learn the basic part of a relationship, trust. If two people can share honesty across cyber-space than they have a wonderful start in any future relationship. The hard part is giving that trust and believing in one another...but don't we do that in normal face to face relationship?
Reply:No!!!! B-cause a relationship builds only when both see each-other and try helping each-other regularly thus coming closer to each-other. On-line is too-much imaginary. Reality is difficult.
Reply:I don't becuz you can't tell if the other is cheating or not, but i do believe in online friends
Reply:Nope, because the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, not the other side of the country

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