Is online dating worth it for a 20-something female tired of the club scene & what are the best sites for that

I got out of a serious relationship a few months ago. I was madly in love %26amp; it ended suddenly and without warning as he was cheating. I'm coping and getting over it, but I had grown accustomed to having someone to come home to, snuggle with, %26amp; share stuff with. I miss it. I'm clearly not ready for anything serious right now but do like dating %26amp; getting that male attention. But at the same time, the situation with my ex has me kind of discouraged and put off by men as I thought I was going to marry this man and he turned out to be an a**hole. I'm considering checking out some online dating sites to help me get back in the game. But part of me thinks that's just pathetic and for desperate people. Not to be conceited but I would consider myself a fairly attractive person inside and out (22, intelligent, 5'5", 125lbs) %26amp; could go to the club %26amp; get some numbers but tired of that scene. Is online dating worth it or is it just desperate old guys looking to get lucky %26amp; what are good free sites?

Is online dating worth it for a 20-something female tired of the club scene %26amp; what are the best sites for that
its not for desperate people actually its for people just like yourself....LOL who dont want something serious but want to flirt and just be able to do what you want still..but always have someone to talk to...if you dont mind wasting time and you have time to waste go for it....you would be surprised how many extremely good looking people are addicted to the internet...i consider myself one of them...LOL
Reply:The best free site is





PlentyofFish.com
Reply:oh ouch! That hurts just reading it. Of all the ways to break up, that's got to be the worst...out of nowhere...because he's cheating...when you were thinking of marriage... :(





I don't know the answer to your question. If you figure it out, let me know! I'm about your age and probably on the verge of becoming single. If you have luck anywhere, let me know!





But kind of on a different note, I just wanted to say...rebounds sometimes work! A lot of my past relationships, in fact some of the very best of them, could be considered rebounds. It's legitimate to not want to be alone...I never bought into the theory that you have to get "used" to being alone before it's ok to be with someone again. How does that make sense? You just need to make sure you keep your wits about you and don't get so desperate that you go for a loser. But from the way you write and talk, I doubt that's going to be an issue for you.
Reply:Ur probably only gonna find more liars n cheaters online...cause lets be serious, who tells the truth online? Y would a dude say he's old, balding n fat if u can't see him? I think u should spend this time bettering urself cause u obviously aren' too comfortable with urself if u need male attention. Build ur confidence b4 u start dating again, whether u choose to date online or in the real world.
Reply:wow your the same age as me :)
Reply:Hi hun


1. Sorry about what happened.. that totally totally sucks..


2. In my experience w/online dating, I wouldn't recommend it. I also thought it was for desperate people and I was right!! I felt really awkward about it but now I just kind of laugh it off.. I found someone in another way.


However, maybe you could find a good site.. look out for more answers-- sites that are cool.


No harm in trying, I guess! you could always be anonymous for a while to try it out and see what kinds of people are on the site.
Reply:A friend of mine used online dating for a while he meet a few woman he liked had a good time and now is in a serious relationship with one of them. Yahoo has a personals section. I think they all charge you a little bit. There are all kinds of age ranges. Just be safe meet in public places if you don't like someone don't go out with them again. Most people using personals are not looking for a quick hook up. Just stay away from Craigslist.
Reply:ddd
Reply:you wont find many decent guys on dating sites, mostly losers who cant find real partners in life. im not saying ALL are losers, just most of them.