Online Dating?

Is looking for a mate via the internet cheesy, desparate or seriously a BAD IDEA??

Online Dating?
Chatting and dating online is most definitely none of those things! I started working as an online dating consultant a few year ago, and have had a great deal of success with helping my clients find that relationship that they are looking for...





Why am I, and they, so successful? Because you can chat with a large number of people in a short amount of time, without spending any money or leaving your house! You actually get to know the people BEFORE you meet them, and see their picture, so that you can get to know them enough to decide if they could be right for you. Then, you have a handful of guys to go on dates with... and spend time with in person... so that you can decide which one of them is the best guy for you!





Of course, I also have clients that are simply looking for short-term or casual relationships, and I cater to their needs as well. Even with short-term relationships, all of my clients want to make sure that the people that they meet are compatible with them!





I have included the two site below that I use for all of my clients... whether they are looking for serious and long-term relationships, or for something fun and short-term. You simply need to decide what kind of relationship that fits your current lifestyle and goals!
Reply:it's at LEAST worth a try
Reply:very bad ideal, never date someone you met on the net, to many nuts cases out there
Reply:Well here's the thing.





I was on a regular site one day and this guy randomly instant messaged me. We talked for days which turned into months. I started to like him even though he lived across the country and he really started to like me too: we told each other, and that was just a blast. Who would've known that a year and 6 months later our parents would know about the other, and we've already met each other once?


He is now my boyfriend and I am fourteen years old, he's sixteen. We are the greatest together but have had such rough times through out our relationship: though we've had the greatest times also! We will visit each other again for a month during the summer and I absolutely cannot wait.


Another example of an Internet relationship is one that actually helped me too. A girl one day told me, over the Internet, that she waited TEN years to actually meet her husband. They've only known each other through the Internet. But I do not think that Internet dating sites help because those people are creepy crawlers... so just wait, talk, and see if you're time comes. It's only destiny anyway, so maybe the Internet isn't for you. :-)
Reply:neither it could just be trying someting different. ty
Reply:Sometimes i think it can be desperate cuz it means that you've given up on meeting people in real life BUT the same thing happened to me out of the blue. I went on the internet to keep in touch with friends and met this guy who lives 3000 miles away from me. We are now really happy together!! You just have to be careful, and be sure that the person you find is the person they say they are. They're are so many weirdos out there but you never know where you're gonna find love!! Good luck, hope it works out for you!!
Reply:depends


I found my current gf on the net but I wasn`t looking it was accidental


if you find someone you like then it`s ok


but if you go on the net just to search a bf then it`s a little lame
Reply:A bit desperate and full of mind trickery.
Reply:Considering that most people lie about themselves on the web, yeah, it's a bad idea.
Reply:Its Desparate and a bad idea for all I know you may go with a murderer and when you meet in real life he kills or and even a rapist
Reply:It is worth a try. There is a list of dating sites at http://www.webdatingguide.com Some of the sites are 100% free.
Reply:I have to strongly disagree with most people who have posted before me .. I met lots of men going to clubs, in stores , it is easy to meet men in person ..that was never an issue ... but I knew I was looking for someone that would really fit .. Going on line gave me the opportunity to meet so many men and get to know them verbally , mentally and they did send pictures , you do get to know a lot of people in a short time and after a while of talking on line you can tell if they are right for you .. same as in person .. I made lots of pen pals that I still write to ..to exchange ideas , jokes, and just say hello ..and I DID meet , my partner , my Love of one year now ... Be careful as you would meeting in person ..there are good and bad people everywhere in life (although most are good ) ..hopefully you will make the right choices on line or in person ... life is always a gamble ..the Internet just gives you better odds !
Reply:Sometimes it is cause some people lie so if you are you can meet them in person then it will be a good idea
Reply:It depends how old you are. Internet dating is not for teens. I guess the older people who don't like to go out and meet people do online...my dad does it he's 43. Its not desperate, its just a different way of meeting someone.
Reply:No No and No! its a hooot!
Reply:To be honest with you,


I use to date a girl online, and I made up lots of Lies because I want to impress her. But I changed now = )





Dateing online is not a bad idea, but you MUST spend a lot of time to know this person and find out if he a tricky person or not before you meet up with him.





Good luck, I hope you don't find people use to be like me = )