ok.. so i decided to try match.com. every guy that I'm interested in doesn't write me back ...and the guys who write to me I am not interested in. What's the point? Is this anyone else's experience??
i'm in my early 30s...it seems impossible to meet men!! I have no idea what to do... i don't want to start hanging out in bars (yuck)...
Online dating?
i've done the dating thing before. and hun, it takes time. you can't expect fireworks and sparks right from the beginning. i'm currently dating someone i met online...and we've been together for three years now.
and really, sometimes it about having an open mind too. maybe you should give those guys you say you don't like a try. maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised.
just be cautious. make sure to meet in a public place for the first time. and i would suggest meeting the person at the place instead of having him pick you up. i'm not trying to tell you not to trust the guys, but you're a woman, you need to be cautious with these things. even if you talk with someone online for a long time, it doesn't mean he's really telling the truth. just be extra cautious.
good luck.
Reply:Maybe you need to re-read the questions and answer more truthfully.
Reply:The better sites are
http://www.intimateadults.com
http://www.123personals.com
http://www.web-personals.us
Reply:I tried on-line dating once and I met this guy that wanted to marry me, it didn't work out- but he was a great guy. He just wasn't saved. I know what you mean about bars and clubs. I stopped trying to meet men there years ago. Good Luck and I hope God blesses you with a good man! Don't give, up he's out there somewhere :)
Reply:Hey I have that same problem.. Only Ive stooped to the bars. =(
Reply:ok... i tried match and it totally sucked for me. i ended up meeting some really clingy guys. the reason why the guys arent responding back to u is probably because they havent paid for their subscription. with match u can have a profile up and be active, but if u r on a trial (free) account u cant read emails or respond to emails. so i wouldnt be discouraged. its definitely not YOU!!
i met 3 guys from match and knew that it wouldnt work for me. i closed my account. dont get me wrong, it was fun at first. then i just saw right through all the lame profiles
the bar scene isnt for me either and im 26. my friends have introduced me to thier friends and that has been fun. try meeting some of ur friends buddies or coworkers. good luck
Reply:Yes, I have had this experience. I have tried many of the online dating services with no success. Since then, I decided to enjoy being happily single and late fate decide when I meet that special guy. Try joining a few social groups, take up a hobby and make yourself more available to meet a decent guy. Stay away from the bars!
Good Luck and let me know how it goes!
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