Online dating?

ok.. so i decided to try match.com. every guy that I'm interested in doesn't write me back ...and the guys who write to me I am not interested in. What's the point? Is this anyone else's experience??

Online dating?
I am on Yahoo Personals. I moved to a new place and try to make friends, so far I have made a few nice friends. It just takes time to get people to respond. I sent out tons of messages, but only about 10% reply. Some people have profiles online, but they are not paying to subscribe, so they can't reply you. Just be patient. Have a little faith. If you believe you will find your love there, you will.


There are always freaks and weirdos on those sites. Be careful. I had a few replies and all of them claimed to be in US on the profiles. But turned out all from "west africa".
Reply:yeah, that can happen. But it takes time... Keep sending out winks/ emails and eventually you'll "hit" on someone. BTW - make sure you have a picture posted, I never responded to the ones that didn't.
Reply:Well aether the guys you like have bin taken or they just did it for the hell of it. But what i suggest you you just try MSN groups and see what you can find there my uncle got a girl friend from Italy and they seem really happy together!
Reply:I don't see the point in online dating. Lots of the guys who do that online dating have like 10 online gf's!!
Reply:That's the same as offline though, isn't it? Not everyone you are interested in will be interested back...not everyone who is interested in you, will catch your eye.





Be patient...the upside of meeting people online to date (offline) is that you may meet people you may never have crossed paths with otherwise.
Reply:Always remember nothing in life happens before its time and you will never be disappointed
Reply:I think you should keep trying and do not give up and you find a right one. I am still doing it myself and have not found the girl that I am looking.
Reply:It takes a bit of patience. Also, it depends on what you're writing. You want to write something that's going to draw attention...and, not too wordy, not too short.
Reply:Yes, i have experience online dating before, it was not a pleasant one. Well, don't write to anyone, let that guy find you and if you are interested in each other then talk. Just ignore the guys that you aren't interested in. If you do find someone you like get to know them before dating them, anyone can say they are anyone, you don't want to be scammed. Well, I had an account there at match.com up I was having the same problem as you were so I stayed off there and the next thing I knew the guy was so interested that he figured out my email and started talking to me. He showed me his pic, and we have been talking for two years almost. So, you might want to give yourself a break from there so you are not so depressed. Come back to it when you feel ready to check match.com again.
Reply:Haha Yes. I've had that happen to me before. It seemed like for awhile every girl I liked didn't see me anything more than a friend and every girl that liked me I only liked them as a friend. For the most part. I see a pattern, However one day you will find someone you'll like and someone will feel the same way tords you. In other words you'll find the right person. : )
Reply:Maybe you're too picky